MALE VERSUS FEMALE EMOTIONS  

nubiangoddezz 51F
75 posts
12/4/2005 5:42 pm

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MALE VERSUS FEMALE EMOTIONS


MY QUESTION FOR MY FRIENDS HERE AT AdultFriendFinder IS TO FIND OUT IF IT IS EASIER FOR MEN OR WOMEN TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT? IT SEEMS TO ME THAT MEN CAN HAVE SEX WITH YOU ONE MINUTE AND THE NEXT ACT LIKE THEY NEVER EVER MET YOU... WHILE WOMEN TEND TO WANT THE INTIMACY OF IT EVEN IF IT IS A ONE NITE STAND OR BOOTY CALL... WOULD APPRECIATE ANY COMMENTS ON THIS!

rm_eyeCUlookin 37F
11 posts
12/4/2005 6:33 pm

I guess ultimately it really varies from person to person but generally speaking I'd say the way you put it seems pretty accurate. I think most men really don't need intimacy, or at least if they do they don't display that fact very well. Then again, it's hard for me to give a non partisan opinion. I am a woman. lol


jelliotttt 63M
5 posts
12/30/2005 7:32 am

I think being intimate is essential. I have never had sex without an emotional attachment of some kind. I don't think I cling to people and don't want to be clung to. But, in the same verse I think you need to know each other and feel each other to some degree in order for the sex to work. As to your other posts, I have a kinky side that I think I want to try but I totally love being with a woman. I love foreplay, to include massages, and knowing each others bodies. I love kissing and it is so passonite to me. I think that old time making out and groping each other leading to a nice shower together, drying off together and then exploring each other sexually is just fantastic. I love the feeling of bringing the woman I am with to orgasam, especially orally, it is so gratifing to me. The more times the better. Then submitting myself to her for her to bring me to orgasam and not waiting to start everything over, just begin again right then. Yeah I know most men only think of themselves and I am probably strange, but that is what I enjoy.
Happy New Year


daighi 49M
1449 posts
12/31/2005 9:17 am

It is my experience that guys don't NEED emotional attachment to their partners in order to have sex with them.Most guys think with their dicks first then with their heads,THEN with their hearts,& in that order.

I have to say here that i am NOT one of those types of guys.It takes me a while to get to know someone before i'll attempt to be anything more intimate than kissing.

I know that this might sound unbelievable to you & possibly,god forbid boring,but it is true.

I love to feel that i connect with a woman on a more higher level than just sex.Also,taking time to get to know her likes & dislikes has it's advantages.Eventually chat will come around to sex,& sexual preferences.I can learn a whole lot about a woman sexually by talking with her about her fantasies etc.

Most guys just want to jump your bones.Now theres nothing wrong with that,if you prefer to keep your sex-life on a shallow level,& do it just for the sex.But if i really want to get to know the woman inside,I take my time & make it worthwhile for BOTH of us.

I wish you a very Happy New Year,& thank you for visiting & posting to my blog.It is very much appreciated.

Regards,

D. XXXXXXXXXXXXX

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D. XX


nubiangoddezz 51F

12/31/2005 10:03 am

THANKS SO MUCH FOR TAKING THE TIME TO RESPOND TO MY BLOG AS WELL. I DONT FIND IT BORING AT ALL AS A MATTER OF FACT THERE NEED TO BE MORE MEN OUT THERE LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE RARE VERY RARE! ANY WOMAN THAT GETS TO KNOW YOU IS LUCKY AND WILL BE TREATED AS WE ALL WOULD LIKE TO BE BY MEN TODAY! I WISH YOU A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR AND HOPE THAT ALL YOUR DESIRES COME TRUE IN THE NEW YEAR!!! WILL KEEP AN EYE ON YOUR BLOG FOR YOUR RESPONSES TOO... TAKE CARE HAVE FUN TONITE BUT BE SAFE!

LOOKING FORWARD TO FUTURE BLOGS BY YOU,

NUBIANGODDEZZ


pootangtester 43M
1 post
1/10/2006 12:03 pm

it does vary from person to peerson. I personally feel that if the couple(s) are showing intimacy then they are relaxed enough to enjoy themselves to the point where they can express what they are feeling to each other so the time togather will be well spent. Eating, licking, sticking...and so on


singleagain269 51M

3/9/2006 11:02 pm

Most men that show their emotions, you ladies called nice and really want them as friends. While on the other hand most women go after the same type of man that they have been having problems with and are unwilling to change the type of man they want. These men are only out for bragging right on how many women they have fucked. this is why you ladies have such a hard time finding the right man, when in fact the right man has been in your life the whole time and you looked right passed him. Maybe be he isn't the best looking guy, or he may find you unapproachable. Maybe he thinks that you are just to beautiful for him. Men how ever like to be chased too, and want to be held, and want women to do the little things that women want men to do for them. So, do a liitle bit of chasing and see where it leads. Most men want a women that will let him be himself and not on his ass for every little thing he does wrong. Because you ladies have the the one thing most every man wants and you know it. Yes, the all mighty pussy. Just stop using it as a weapon. When you are mad at your man still fuck his brains out and remind him that you are still mad at him and watch his reaction.


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