Whats Average?  

notusedupyet27 63M
11 posts
6/25/2005 7:00 am

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Whats Average?

I have met several women on this site that all claim to be average. Come on ladies, be realistic. A woman that is 5'8 and is 185 is not average. Who are you trying to fool? When you meet someone the truth is going to be obvious. Let's be realistic and really tell your body size. I just got an e-mail from a lady that says she is 5'11" and average but weighs in at 225# Lady that ain't average.. that's ample ..or more. I'm wondering if you gals think us men are blind. Average is someone I can put my arms around and have my hands overlap. Please... be honest.

PassionGoneWild 54M

6/25/2005 8:16 am

On the flip side, there are quite a few people who say their body type is average but it's actually quite stunning (in a good way!!!)...

peanutgirl3 47M/49F
4 posts
6/25/2005 10:39 am


I so agree. I wondered what I should put when I first filled out my profile. I am 5'0" and at the time weighed 154 lbs. I did put ample at first then I changed it because I was working out and planning on dropping weight. I still work out and have lost 27 lbs, so now I do feel that I look average.

It is so true, I wink at couples based on what they have put out there and then come to find out they are not what they said they were and it is very sad. I wish everyone would just be honest, be happy with what God has given you. If you got it flaunt it.

ByteChaser2 53M

6/25/2005 11:24 am

Yes... but I think (not defending the obvious mis-representations that exist in great number here you understand) we've missed the definition of "average". Simply, average is the most common. It's middle of the road, center of the spectrum, and blah, blah, blah.

Is 5'8" 185# average for a woman? mmmm pretty close I imagine. Perhaps on the high end of average but I whitness far more of this body type in women just walking down the street than any other. So yeah, I suppose that's average.

Cock size? There's scientific studies that place the average length at just under 7 inches. I'm happy to say, while my body size is definitely NOT average for a man (Slim is me - 5'8", 140#), my little Dickie is. But that's not what many purport to be looking for.

So what's the point? Average, when properly represented, is just center of the road or the same (similar) as the majority of the population. Average in the context of this, and other sites like it, tends to be mis-represented and mis-defined, in the hopes of making one's self more appealing and therefore more competative.

It's sad that the "average" get passed over so frequently... But what can you do but be honest. Like you said, eventually your going to find out anyway so why lie?

DirtyLilSecret61 55F

6/25/2005 11:53 am

I'm a size 16 and therefore ample. I think 'average' is different to everyone depending on what they're looking for.


rm_evad17 44M

6/25/2005 11:53 am

Dude who are you to tell these women what there feeling of avg. is.If they think they are avg.Then who are we to tell them.If you dont like her move on.I will say they should'nt mis represent them selves drastically.If they do then they are liers and not worth your time or mine.

rm_culloden2005 74M
9 posts
6/25/2005 12:04 pm

hbgirl has some of this right and I am sure her comparison regarding men and their equipment will bespot on.

The sterio typical male in his early 30s seem to still relate to celuloid images which do not ralate to the current standard of height & weight charts for both men and women.

With the current tendency to spend more nad more time working out there is a strong possibility that you do not reduce body mas but develop muscled mass. 5'8"" would normally come in at 165 - 175 and if she is say 10 lbs over that does not make her a BBW.

Ecaffiene 52F

6/25/2005 12:05 pm

lol,this is too funny....i hear this all the time from guys .and this is why my profile says a little extra padding !! Just because I know it`s there and its ok with me and i have never heard a man complain about it.

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