First encounter  

notfake1 49M
4 posts
8/22/2006 8:12 am

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9/11/2006 10:45 am

First encounter

I can say that for me having sex with other people improved my sex life at home.It doesn't feel boring anymore,I can go longer and better.My fantasy is having my wife in bed with another man.How can I make her do it?What shoud I say to her?How did you feel first time your partner was with someone else right in front of your eyes?What about him/her?Any advice?

2daycowboywanted 45F

8/22/2006 9:24 am

For some it works for others it may not. The jealously thing also might kick in. Just be sure that when the subject is brought up that you are honest about what you want and what you are looking for. Best of luck!

Until later

rm_liz4u2cHot 36M/36F
1 post
8/23/2006 1:38 am

Well I'm on the other side of the same situation.. well kinda. I'm in a commited relationship and would love to add another woman in a 3some to be able to give that to him. I would enjoy it as well but I am concerned about how to not ever see the woman again. (Either of us) I just want us to use her together and toss her to the side. It'll add so much to our bond I think. Anyways on here tonight just looking around just happened to run into him (He didn't know it was me) And we started talking. We talked about this happening and how great it would be when he thought he was talking to the woman we were to share. We talked for 2 hours and he said the entire time that he wouldn't do it without me. Then right at the end tried to get me (thinking I was her) to meet him alone tomorrow. Said he wanted his girlfriend (me) in none of it. So now how do I go forward seeing him tom, knowing he's not as commited as he says, and not admit to snooping to start with? I am 30 yrs old and he's 39 so we are grown. But I love this man with all my heart and he's had me convinced he felt the same. Any advice?

Eviloutlaw1 55M
365 posts
8/24/2006 4:52 pm

Call you a cheating bastard? Come now your on a sex site that caters to couples and singles looking for just what you discribed.
First of all, to advise you would be counter productive, all things are not equal and while you may have fantasies of seeing your partner with someone else, she may only want you. Or you may enter the relm of the green eyed monster... Beware! This land is treacherous, things arn't always what they seem. Your feelings may change once the fantasy is envoked, or she may encounter someone who rings her bell better than you do. All things are possible.
The thing to do is have a sit down with your partner, see what's what. Tell her of your feelings, get her reaction to things as it we're. If your unable to do that first, then your not really ready.

rich693841 52M/53F

8/26/2006 8:03 am

we agree with evil. you need to sit down and talk as adults and let her know what you are feeling and the desires that you have. but first and formost you must feel secure in your ralationship. be open and honest with each other as she may have similar desires and does not know how to talk to you about it as well. good luck and hope things work out for you as my wife and i love what we do as we are not jealous of each other and we only play togehter and we let everyone involved know that up front.

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