am i wanting to much ???  

notasexyblonde 50F
40 posts
4/9/2006 4:18 pm

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am i wanting to much ???

am i hopeing ,wanting,or looking to hard to find that one man to share my life with ,i came on to this site to get my sex life back on track ,at first i just wanted sex ,that was good till i found out how selfish men can be and wot meaningless sex was really like (its good occasional when u want that quick rush of stranger sex )
then i wanted a playmate (or two hehe)that was very good ,some very good sex and a bloody good laff but can only do that for a certained amount of time as feeling do start to appear and its maily one sided
im not looking for love as i dont believe in love but im just looking for that feeling when someone want to really get to know who u r as a person and not just your body ,and yeah be4 u all say ITS a sex site yeah true but the daten site are the same
i would love to really know the true feeling and thoughts of the men and women on here about your views and im i asking or hopen for to much ??

mic xxxxx

Koffla 60M
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4/9/2006 5:32 pm

Noy sure how long you've been a member but when I first joined it was all about finding sex partners. Now five years later I am more interested in a more meaningful close relationship with someone who likes some of the things I enjoy.


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Lucky80550 46M

4/9/2006 6:53 pm

sorry to hear how some people or guy are so mean I know how that is it hard to find someone to have fun with but it is just as hard to find someone to be close to life sucks and some people are picky but some are not there alot of nice people out there and some are lonely or just want someone to be close to, or to have tell them once in a while that there glad to have found a friend and a lover don't give up just have fun and fuck the other people who cares what they think right just have fun.


4/22/2006 8:42 am

I think saying you don't believe in love is terrible. If that's really the case then there's been something lacking in your life, and I don't mean that in a patronizing way either. Love is the most wonderful thing we can all experience. It's fine to say you don't believe in it but it really DOES exist. Unfortunately it's like one of those wild and unpredictable experiments where the result is unknown because there's so many different ingredients to the experiment, all of them volatile.
I've experienced love and it felt great and made me want more of the same. It made me want to be a better person. When it's good it's great but when it's bad it's awful, worse than words can really say. But the same can also be said of the good side of love.

With 6.5 billion people on the planet, over half of them being female, the chance of meeting that special person is astronomical but not impossible and as we gather experiences we learn to tolerate, which is another ingredient of love and happiness. Don't give up hope on love. We're not all animals without feelings or souls, we're just not all meant to be together...

...but some of us are.


well_hung_young6 48M
4 posts
4/22/2006 7:19 pm

hi notasexyblonde .hun im sorry to hear you lost hope in the male kind were not all like that, there is still some old school romatic out there .but sorry to say you would consider them not your type .in my experience i have found alot of atractive men and woman do not treat there partners right as they think they can easly get a new one's as every one wants them .but in thinking like this they do not consider what they do to there partner at the time ,hun love dose excist i can promise you this ,you just have not found your other half yet .like most of us we look but dont find and end up settleing for second best even though we kids our selfs that it is true love but always feel somting is missing ,but hun dont be dishaertend hun .the thing is dont look for it ,it will find you friend on the net take care be happy and be your self at all time hugs andy

SirMounts 102M

4/23/2006 2:08 am

Well, how can you be looking for a Man to share your life with, without believing in love? That may confuse some - although I am easilly confused, anyway. *winking*
Welcome to the blogs, notasexyblonde. *smiling*

Starbeam53 63
9 posts
4/30/2006 8:41 pm

Hun you stick to what makes you happy and eventually you will find a happy compromise maybe even 'THE ONE' but until then be safe and enjoy what life gives you and grab at what it does not

Hope we can talk more elsewhere soon

Love ya babes

d_rat69mmm 50M
137 posts
5/5/2006 5:57 am

nope you can have my points of view any time you like, you know that. in many ways i suppose i'm looking for the same things but they never seem to materialise. as you say what's the point if it has no meaning at all

sandhazard 53M
129 posts
5/5/2006 5:05 pm

I only wish you weren't 5000 miles from me... ;o)

notasexyblonde 50F

5/6/2006 10:54 am

thanks guys for your replys and sorry it toke me sometime to answer

soykfla : yep true but then i surpose its the been there and got the the shirt type of thing but at least we have a go at trying to find that something

lucky : thanks for your comments , i have been lucky and meet some nice men on here but then ive also meet some users but saying that im sure i have been a user meself but the longer im single im scared the more selfish i become but your right i do just have fun and im enjoying it but i think there has to be a point of stoping

ride-the-subway : wow to your comment as at the moment im not sure wot to write back without sounding like a women thats had her heart broke and cant get over it but i think i have but then again maybe i aint cause i dont want to go down that path again to get hurt but like u said when u r in love there is not a feeling like it

notasexyblonde 50F

5/6/2006 11:09 am

well hung young (andy ): that is very true hun about not considering people to be my type cause im sure i miss out on that someone that i think im looking for but then i think u need that first attracion and everyone has got a type there like (well i think so anyway but im sure someone will say im wrong hehe)

sirmount : hehe u r right but i think i am confused have u read my profile lmaooooooooooooo

starbeam : thanks hun but ive been on net to long now i think as i would just love to meet that someone diffrent if u know wot i mean

notasexyblonde 50F

5/6/2006 11:17 am

hey d rats its nice to see u say something to me not just cause im the only one that replys and u have to make do with chatting to me lmaoooooooooooo but yeah aint it fucking hard work lol

sandhazard: hehe yep as the saying gos the best ones live to far away lol but thats the problem with the net yeah its good that u get to meet n chat with people that u would never get to meet but its also very fusrating when u got the hots for them or u really want to meet them but u now u will never get to meet

notasexyblonde 50F

5/22/2006 2:50 pm

hhhmmmmmmmmmmm i think my bright star has fadded n gone away sliver luv xxxxxxxx

maturewelshlover 32M

9/26/2006 9:51 am

Hiya gorgeous,

how are things? Judging by the above i guess your alittle frustrated. Ive been hoping to catch up with you and maybe
chat more sometime, if you fancy it. x

spinner24 47M

12/19/2006 2:10 pm

Hi notasexyblonde,

Well, with your name being the most wrong name on here, and your profile being one of the most interesting, you do so intrigue me.

What is it about you that is so very appealing? I think it's that you are selective and maybe fussy - but hey you have the right be as much as anyone does. And everyone can say no or goodbye, at anytime.

I'd love to meet up with you, have a drink somewhere, chat with you far too much and listen even more - and knowing you just a little bit, I'd either end up with a friend, or maybe a girlfriend.

Yes, you should be fussy and not settle for someone you don't really fancy - it'll never last if you do!!

Have a great Christmas and a very Happy New Year, wherever you may be.

Drop me a line in the New Year and we can meet up sometime, maybe I'll fancy you, maybe you'll fancy me - only one real way to find out.

Take care


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d_rat69mmm 50M
137 posts
4/28/2007 8:51 am

well i'm still here and i'm sure you're not asking for too much

d_rat69mmm 50M
137 posts
4/28/2007 8:51 am

oh yes, and have you found it yet lol ??

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