So Guys---give me your opinion......  

noordinarychic2 48F
510 posts
2/23/2006 7:03 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

So Guys---give me your opinion......


Guys -- I need some male advise.... I met this man.....we've swapped emails....lots of them.....funny funny stuff....two days ago he stopped by my work just to say hi..(with my ok of course).....he seems to very much be my type....we exchanged phone numbers... we've played phone tag....leaving messages but never connecting. So this morning i get an email that says "did i scare you off"??? my question --- was he expecting me to call him??? i've never been the girl that chases....especially in the beginning......its not that i have a problem calling --- i just figured since i had left a message telling him to call.....if he wanted to pursue things further he would.......now it sounds like he's waiting on me..... so i replyed to his email....but should i call?? lord this is so high school......LOL......

and fyi----the nipple piercing.....awesome.....healing up quite nicely and yep...getting the other one done soon!!!!

MildOne20109 50M
17 posts
2/28/2006 7:09 pm

Well, it is a lot like high school. I think in general we stop growing up after 13. That sounds pretty scary but sometimes so very true. In any case, this is the 00's now so it is OK to call a guy if you want to go out. Lets face it, both of you are scared about being rejected. If you are no ordinary chic like your handle, you may not have had to deal with that much. The real question for you is, Do you want to chase this man or Do you not want to chase this man. It does sound like he wants you to pursue him and if that is the kind of relationship that you want, go for it. If not, just remember, men are like busses, another one will come along in another 10 min.


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