On the Subject of New Relationships  

noordinarychic2 48F
510 posts
3/17/2006 6:14 am

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3/19/2006 5:55 am

On the Subject of New Relationships

Now you can hardly call one date a "relationship"...lol...but anytime you are getting to know someone new its a scary proposition. Did they like me? did they not? will they call? will they not? will we do it again? will we not? No matter how old you get it seems that some emotions are timeless. i've come to the conclusion that despite being on this site -- which lends itself to those of us who want some crazy sex -- and are quite open about it.....i really do want a "boyfriend" type of relationship....and those take time. I'm trying really hard to be reasonable in my expectations and be, at least on the surface, a somewhat cool and collected chic about this....but damn I wanna see him again....lol It's been awhile since someone peaked my interest like he does...... but I'm not rushing -- well trying not to anyway......who knows? We shall see...LOL.....
just a footnote to all of you that have taken the time to comment......thank you.....its always nice to hear someone else's take on it all

MildOne20109 50M
17 posts
3/18/2006 11:12 am

Hey There Girly,

I know what you mean by wanting to talk to him, in my case her, but not knowing how agressive one should be. I also know that I can't speak for anyone else but me, we all have different expectations. There are people that will just "Do It" for you. The problem that we have is that both of you have to "Do It" for each other for it to work out. Having a woman/girlfriend/lover/friend would be great. I guess the thing that you have to keep in mind is what are you bringing to the table. If you bring to the table someone that has a positive self image and feels great about themselve, without getting too big of a head, then you will be someone that your man will want to be with. If you are filled with self doubt, then no matter how much you do for that guy, he will never be there for you.

From what I can tell from your notes, you are an inteligent woman that has her head on straight. So feel good about who you are and that guy that Does it for you will be there for you.

Take Care,

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