On The Subject of My Roomate  

noordinarychic2 48F
510 posts
8/10/2006 5:36 am

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8/10/2006 7:41 pm

On The Subject of My Roomate


i much prefer waking up to the sound of her fucking then the sound of her crying...especially when she's wrapped up in something for which there is no answer. I love her though and am doing my best to be her friend no matter even if that means biting my tongue to keep from screaming "are you fucking stupid?? he has a wife!" lol...smiles all and who am i to judge? I know of a married man or two that i'd have a hard time saying no to...but dammit i hate to see her hurting...and not be able to fix it except to say that i love her and will support her even if i don't think she's making the best choices...but hell...all i have to do is look at my own screwed up mess...where he was concerned when did i ever make the best choices??? speaking of which how is it that you can miss one person so much???

2daycowboywanted 45F

8/10/2006 7:08 am

If she is waking up crying it is time to be a friend tell her you love her and she really needs to dump the guy. No man, unless he is completely 100% absolutely yours, is worth crying over!

Until later
2daycowboywanted


luvlee_j1 46F

8/10/2006 9:01 am

    Quoting 2daycowboywanted:
    If she is waking up crying it is time to be a friend tell her you love her and she really needs to dump the guy. No man, unless he is completely 100% absolutely yours, is worth crying over!

    Until later
    2daycowboywanted
She' right time to be friend and speak up.......but is any man ever completely, absolutely 100% yours?


rm_remodman3 49M
128 posts
8/10/2006 9:04 am

GROUND RULES.

One of many,
For the man....never lead a potential "bed mate", not lover, astray.
Men are known for saying things like, "My wife and I do not get along",
"My wife and I are on the splits" or the best one"My wife doesn't understand me". 98% of the time it is bullshit. Most men have good relationships with their wives. THEY LIE TO YOU. They get the maternal instinct in women to start wanting to fix this guys life and the emotional feelings to have sex.
Hello, Ladies, if you are going to have sex with a married man have sex not an emotional relationship. If he has problems in his marriage and is leaving his wife, do you really want to date/sleep with him?
Hell no, you know to stay away from him until his emotions have been worked out. which usually takes a year or more.
Just my 2 cents.


midwestboy1972 44M  
663 posts
8/10/2006 1:11 pm

But screwing and getting emotionally attached to a married person are two different things. Just support her and be her friend. That's all you can do!


fndsinva 50M

8/10/2006 4:46 pm

This is a tough call. I see both sides to this issue. My "advice", such that it is, keep doing what you are. If she asks your opinion, give it to her. Especially if she gave you hers regarding your situation. And point out any similarities between the two. It might help..... And good luck.


noordinarychic2 48F
242 posts
8/10/2006 7:41 pm

As always good advise from my three favorite guys!! luv ya all me!!


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