impressions after a weeks membership  

nogoodatnames 35M
7 posts
8/9/2006 12:28 pm

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impressions after a weeks membership


hello all, thought it was about time to give a few thoughts on being an active member for a week or so.

ok, i initially came here with really high hopes of chatting to a few nice people and eventually meeting up in person. after all, that's what this site is for.
but it quickly became apparent that (no offence ladies) unless you are exceptionally good looking, are about 6ft and have a pretty huge cock then you aren't really going to get anywhere on this site. for sure, there are exceptions to this but very rarely.
i don't want to come across as bitter because i'm really not, it's just that i had hoped that websites like this were actually aimed at people like me; people who have trouble meeting people in real life because they don't enjoy the club or pub scene. but it's actually filled with people who are seemingly skilled at meeting people in real life anyway so why are you here?
i've lost count of the amount of well thought out messages i've sent to people, and before you start bitching, i always try to pick something out of their profile that appeals to me, have not once uttered "fancy a fuck?" and always aim for people that i can realistically call my type. i know i'm not everyones type for sure.
i'm still hopeful that i might get chatting to someone before my month is up, and progress past a one line reply.
if anyone reads this and has any advice for me then i'd love to hear it.
i'll be back soon...

2daycowboywanted 45F

8/9/2006 12:46 pm

Dont be a beach warmer be a doer. Get out there and chase!

Until later
2daycowboywanted


tight_n_tasty2 50F

8/9/2006 12:56 pm

first ~~~Welcome to the site~~I think most women here like myself are lonely sometimes and we come here to chat and have great conversations /Laugh/ cyber ectect;

It takes a while to develope trust online and to be comfortable enough to meet so take your time and make friends 1st see how things flow and if there's a connection,btw I meet somebody here who didn'thave a big cock and wasn't all that attractive but we were Best friends and what we got from one another wasn't about looks or sex but a meaningful relationship just the same

*Good luck*


XJackinyourBoxX 42M

8/9/2006 1:03 pm

Patience is sometimes required.
It sounds like you're on the right path. Meaningful emails, look for something in common.
Humor works well. Your profile is better than most I've read.

I'd say keep at it, and give it some time. I used to send at least 5 emails a day and got only one or two responses a week and that includes the "not interested" ones.

I'm met two (3 if you count my neighbor) lovely women on AdultFriendFinder. One I've been with for the last 7 weeks.

Be yourself and if that doesn't work, be someone else...lol


SingleNLooking72 105F

8/9/2006 1:07 pm

Hello and welcome to the Blogville family! First bit of advice I would give is to post a casual pic as your main picture. No offense, but you look like a schoolboy in that picture.A good picture, with a smile, looking at the camera, or looking for something else in the picture, for good reason, is a better choice.

In my opinion, you did a great job on your profile. I hate the "canned" profiles that AdultFriendFinder "helps" you make, as does most everyone I know. I've met alot of great people on this site, male and female. Don't give up after only a week, everybody is slowgoing at first.

A suggestion to meet a few people, hang out in your local chat room a little. The people in the rooms are generally friendly and will let you add them to your network. Networking is a key part of this process. Making friends is part of what we are all here for. This lifestyle can be challenging at times, just hang in there!

Good Luck!
{=}Mz LJ


qosmann 66M

8/9/2006 1:16 pm

Overweight middle aged bald guy here who has met some wonderful female friends here.

My advice? Patience. Seek friendship first. Care. Be yourself. You may find yourself blessed, rewarded.

Best wishes

Q


Roper4aCowgirl 56M
31 posts
8/9/2006 6:06 pm

    Quoting 2daycowboywanted:
    Dont be a beach warmer be a doer. Get out there and chase!

    Until later
    2daycowboywanted
Don't listen to 2day. I've been chasing her for weeks and she runs faster than a Thoroughbred....lol....just kidding. Like 2day, there are some wonderful women here. You just need patience. But more importantly, be you, be sincere and be a gentleman. You'll do fine.

Roper


LizzyDrippinX 57F

8/22/2006 2:57 am

U really expect 2 meet up afta ONLY a week on here?.............GET REAL......U have 2 weedle the real peeps out on here from the many fakes, weirdos & timewasters....Many young guys come on here & expect a shag straight off........this DOESNT happen........like most have said u have 2 have frienship 1st & trust....I also agree with SingleNlooking U look very very young on ur pic....use UK chat room BUT dont expect a quick meet from there either.....I use that room often & have met some great peeps BUT it all wont happen ova nite.........PATIENCE IS A VITRUE


nogoodatnames replies on 8/22/2006 4:28 am:
woah, in english please...

i wasn't expecting a quick meet at all, i'm not that stupid. my main gripe is about a lot of the female profiles on here asking for brad pitt or someone. and the fact that i send sweet messages to people but no replies at all...that's fine and i'm ok with that. it's just this site works better for some than others, that's all.

i've got a potential meet coming up anyway so my patience has paid off. cheers.

nogoodatnames replies on 8/22/2006 4:28 am:
woah, in english please...

i wasn't expecting a quick meet at all, i'm not that stupid. my main gripe is about a lot of the female profiles on here asking for brad pitt or someone. and the fact that i send sweet messages to people but no replies at all...that's fine and i'm ok with that. it's just this site works better for some than others, that's all.

i've got a potential meet coming up anyway so my patience has paid off. cheers.

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