GUYS: Why the facials?  

no_strings_grrl 44F
270 posts
5/20/2005 1:29 pm

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GUYS: Why the facials?

I have always been fascinated with the way so many men seem to LOVE to come on a woman's face. Its not that I have a problem with it at all. I mean, some of the strangest things can get me hot, so whatever floats your boat baby.

It just cracks me up how a guy can be hammering away at a girl, doggie-style, and just before he comes he pulls out. He immediately starts wanking (does this feel better than her pussy?) as the girl carefully positions herself so that she can catch every drop. Then, she rolls it around on her tongue and lets it ooze out of the corners of her mouth.

But why the face?

What is it about the sight of your man-goo squirting into the eyes, hair, etc. of a beautiful woman that you just can't get enough of?

rm_Techie321 44M

5/20/2005 1:46 pm

That has always puzzled me. Maybe once in a while, just to do something naughty and different, but cumming in a nice warm pussy is SOOOO much better than anything the hand can dish out. Or even a blow job for that matter. Those other ways of cumming definately have a place, but to me they'll never be the best!

straykat4 55M
5 posts
5/20/2005 1:49 pm

You know I have always wondered this. I can imagine real life and pulling that on some hot girl covering her face. Hmmmm wonder if there will be second hot nite with her?

no_strings_grrl 44F

5/20/2005 1:54 pm

LMAO I really do wonder what percentage of the population takes part in this, and if its mostly just done in pornos.

I know that some girls like it too, I wonder how many.

TheSearcher67 49M
1 post
5/20/2005 2:07 pm

Must be movie fantasy. I've always wanted to do that, but it just felt so much better staying in. THe times I've tried it wasn't as pleasing to me as I thought. Oh well, whatever she wants...

zippedtight 44M

5/20/2005 2:18 pm

I'd much rather leave it where it belongs. I just think some guys just see it as a power trip.

myownthang1 38M

5/20/2005 2:26 pm

It's sexy as hell. And some chicks love it. It's just a stupid kinky thing to keep from getting bored with shootin' man-goo in the same spot. Gotta change it up somtimes, keep it real nasty, yeah!

rm_Techie321 44M

5/20/2005 2:27 pm

It's probably a porno-centric thing, where it doesn't reflect reality very accurately. Like the guys that can pump it in for like an hour without cumming (I read somewhere the average guy lasts 2-3 minutes after penetration, I think?). And everybody always goes through the whole range of positions during every sexual encounter. And the fact that nobody ever, EVER goes for the cum towel afterwards to clean up, and nobody ever has to sleep in the wet spot.

rm_graysal 59M/58F

5/20/2005 2:33 pm

Yeah, I've always wondered this too. My husband seems to think that this is excellent, the best treat in the world. Why, I really cannot imagine, being just a simple female! Maybe its something to do with seeing what they actually produce each time or just that deep rooted dominant over women thing coming to the fore, even if they're not? Who knows? Perhaps if we females could do the same it wouldn't have such appeal as they would have competition to think about? And men say they don't understand women!!!

EvilMuppet69 37M
89 posts
5/20/2005 3:06 pm

I don't see the attraction myself.

redmustang91 57M  
8599 posts
5/20/2005 3:10 pm

I think facials are a degrading the female thing; does not appeal to me at all. In pornos they do it to prove the guy is coming as internal ejaculation is not photogenic. If the woman wants to be degraded as in bdsm it is ok, but not for me!

CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
5/20/2005 3:27 pm

redmusntang91 wrote: I think facials are a degrading the female thing; does not appeal to me at all.......I agree with this 100%, i mean think about it, your lady is horny as heck,rides your rod to feel pleasure, and all you can do is at the end is stroke 10-11 times and spew on her me that is degrading. Yet if this is HER pleasure (not yours guys) let it be i suppose.

rm_free2plsu 52M
1 post
5/20/2005 3:36 pm

Ok, I read the question and the responses, so here's my 2 cents...I think it has to do with the dominate/submissive nature of the act...and I've discovered that a great number of women, (I'm not so presumptuous as to put a percentage on it) like being submissive to one degree or another in bed...I'm just talking about bed, folks, not in other areas of life...I think it's great, but as an occasional thing...and I agree with those who wrote that it probably originates from all those porn shots....but still is VERY hot! (Oh, and the 2-3 minute comment from Techie...not the least 20 minutes or how else is the woman going to get hers?

chowbox2004 43M
210 posts
5/20/2005 3:38 pm

I dont know what it is, if shes into it, its just hot. It is very outgoing and very sexy. I do prefer a girl that swallows though, that puts me over the edge.

pussnboots694 73M/78F

5/20/2005 5:25 pm

I love to swallow and ask them to do it so I can taste them ummmm

IWannaDooU2 65F
9 posts
5/22/2005 9:27 am

I think it has to do with a couple of things. This started to be seen early on in pornos and I think alot of the men back then were told their genitals were dirty when they were children. Also most growing boys become concerned with how big their penis will grow, thus a final size concern. Nevertheless, nearly men love their penises and want women to love their penis too, even though many men are insecure about their cock just as many women are about their ass, tits, etc. Cum is one step beyond the penis because it comes out of the penis and for a woman to accept a man cumming on her tits or face is for some men, psycologically the ultimate acceptance by a woman of the man in terms of his most cherished body part. In this vein I think this is also one reason why men like blowjobs and why they enjoy it much more if the woman loves doing it or at least appears to rather than him believing she is tolerating doing it just for him or having to talk her into it. I don't mind having a man cum on me and it can be very erotic but I much prefer giving him a blowjob and having him cum in my mouth. I do love men's cocks, I like to tell them so, and make revering comments about their cock. This gives him a great sense of acceptance while for me it is an erotic power trip because although I am not a dominant woman nor do I crave power, I still know when I have control of a man's cock I have control of him and his brain;o) Although I love vaginal sex I can feel his reactions much better in my mouth, how he tries to thrust as he gets hotter, how his cock swells and stiffens to its hardest just before he cums and his cum spurting in my mouth. All the time I know that I have made him do all this, I have controlled his cock and him. I don't feel the least bit used, I feel like a sexually adept woman, he is accepted and it is very mutually satisfying.

rm_me28berlin 43M
3 posts
5/23/2005 2:47 am

It is very hot, yes indeed, and i have to admit, that it is sometimes even better than cumming inside her, but as for me it is not only because i see the cum drip of her face, it is more the situation itself - two people sharing a pretty intimate and not so "clean" moment, smiling, craving, licking and kissing her face clean, while she is still rubbing my cock, yearning for the taste of her saliva and my sperm together.. mhmmmmmmm.. so yes, i enjoy loooongtime stimulation of her and mine, sometimes 69, sometimes one after the other, sometimes by oneself and sometimes by the other, but like most i really cannot understand the porn-egoshooter-style as well and to be honest, cuming on her breasts or ass, i do enjoy much more than darting on her nose..

Priapeo 46M

5/23/2005 7:08 am

Degradation in mutual consenting sex between adults does not exist. It's all part of the game... anal sex too is perceived "against nature" and that's part of its fascination. And what about dirty talking? If I tell my baby "suck it, slut" am I degrading her? Hell, but now I'm answering too seriously, blame it on redmustang91 lol

As for me, letting a cock ejaculate on a woman's face makes sense only because it's a symbol of unbridled sex, of totally losing control. Total acceptance too, yes, like IWannaDooU2 writes, but I suspect that regularly pulling out to release on the forementioned part of the body as if it was target practising would be boring for anyone.

And, If I can turn tables, ladies, why do you love a cock cumming in your mouth?

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience

no_strings_grrl 44F

5/23/2005 8:11 am

I'm so glad I asked! I really love the different view points expressed here...its fascinating indeed.

Personally, I think free2plsu makes a great point: The simple act of sex tends to revolve around a "game" of dom & sub, even if its in very small, subtle ways. That's why sex is so much fun people!

When we get the urge, we can crawl out of our everyday selves and explore ways of controling and exerting power over our mates in fun and harmless ways.

And IWannaDooU2 - its girls like you that make me wish I had a cock. Jeez...

I also agree with Priapeo - if its bewteen 2 consenting adults, there is no true degradation. However, I do believe that cumming in anyone's face is simulated degradation, just like talking dirty and holding someone down to fuck them....and its something we all enjoy, whether we want to admit it or not.

I happen to enjoy being submissive if the right person can accomplish it. But I am very mental and being submissive to me is much more than whips and chains and tying me up. Not many people have what it takes to honestly send that jolt through my body that makes me quiver with anticipation of my control or punishment.

I'm a natural dominant anyway - especially with a woman who enjoys being the center of some very focused attention. And dom can mean simply being the aggressor and initiating the chase, or holding her down and pulling her hair, calling her my slut and making her....

OK, I have to stop now. Cold shower. Be back later.

Alot4U1 61M
1 post
5/23/2005 8:34 am

My expeience has been some women wanted me to pull out and cum on their face. I certainly prefer to leave it in believing it feels better for them, as well as me. I really have to struggle not to leave it in.

redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
5/23/2005 4:36 pm

Guess I missed something in sex education class...I have never aimed it at my mates face intentionally....her breasts soft and cushy....ahhh where was I....yes, and what is this about pulling out in the middle of the act....this is a foreign concept to me. Good question though!

DiGitaLEroTiCa66 50M

5/25/2005 11:06 pm

It's a simple case of monkey see monkey doo. Thats what pornos show so thats what guys do. I personaly like cumming on a womans chest just incase I wanna kiss her afterwards and she can watch the explosion of my cum at the same time. I think to cum on her face is selfish obviously she has to close her eyes and can't watch.

Priapeo 46M

5/26/2005 3:19 am

DiGitaLEroTiCa66, so, in your opinion, it's not selfish if the man gives her lover a pair of glasses for soldering (so that she can watch without being blinded)?

Sorry... just being silly.

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience

rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
6/16/2005 6:03 am

Okay, I agree with almost everything that was posted above. I guess I'm different. I've always asked my partner where she wants me to cum, and that's where I cum. If she is in the mood for a taste, then great, I'll pull out just before (if she isn't in the middle of an orgasm or close to it) and let her finish me orally. That's her pleasure or mood at the moment and I'm happy to fullfill it.
I wonder how many guys kiss her afterward? And if they cum on her face, breasts, or elsewhere... clean her off? If the whole thing is about mutual gratification, then the man better be prepared to continue on if his lady isn't finished yet.

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