I have been unfaithful.  

nightstogether 56M
818 posts
8/10/2005 1:41 pm

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I have been unfaithful.

I have a new Blog, and it isn't here.

Well, to tell you the truth, I have my mirror blog of this one as well, but that isn't what I mean. I've mentioned my mirror many times in the past, and made it clear that I copy all the posts from here to there (where ever there may be) because of the many problems there used to be on AdultFriendFinder with disappearing entries and censorship.

No, it isn't that blog that I'm talking about. I have another blog elsewhere, and it is completely different to this one. My last two posts here were from this political blog, just to give a taste of it.

Why do I have a blog elsewhere, when I could publish anything that I wish on AdultFriendFinder?

Well, I can't publish anything that I wish on AdultFriendFinder. The things that I do publish are subject to the whims of a censor - who approves my thoughts before allowing them out - and, once published, no longer belong to me. On AdultFriendFinder I effectively forfeit my intellectual property rights, and certainly my copyright rights which, for a writer, is a definite no-no.

There is also the time gap between my publishing something, and it being approved by the censor. This is the only site I know of that does such a thing; every single other blogging site I have looked over has instantaneous publication, and no censor. There are no Request Review buttons.

But, even more than that, other blogging sites tend to be treated with greater respect and to be taken far more seriously than AdultFriendFinder. I'm sorry, but it is true. I cannot imagine anyone writing a political or a philosophical blog on AdultFriendFinder being quoted anywhere else, or gaining a wide readership from outside of the core members.

So I am going to continue being unfaithful, and I am going to gain great pleasure from it. Sadly, because of those property and copyright restrictions, I shall not be posting any more of my other blog entries here; but that is probably a relief for those who come here purely to see sex and sexual description and find politics or philosophy out of place. Yes, I have been criticised for some of my earlier, non-sexual posts, and even had them refused by the censor in the bad(der) old days.

The chances are that I will only be sporadically posting here, not that it would make a great difference to anyone. I enjoy the freedom of being able to post on a blog site with automatic appearance and freedom of expression too much to limit myself further. It is a strange feeling for me, as an Englishman living in Germany, to write such a line on an American site based in mainland USA, but the freedom I enjoy elsewhere doesn't exist here, and that is something which cannot be denied, Constitution and Rights regardless.

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rm_txrose4uNTX 57F
3289 posts
8/10/2005 2:59 pm

Do not worry. [blog Harshawj] is working on a project that should help to satisfy our needs. I hope that you will look up his blog name through google and find him there. Do not give up!


nightstogether 56M

8/10/2005 10:42 pm

I've been working on here long enough, [blog txrose4untx], to know that things in this area are unlikely to improve. The improvements so far have been few and far between, and do not even bring AdultFriendFinder up to the standard of the most basic blogging site elsewhere.

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GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
8/13/2005 12:12 pm

nights, tx isn't talking about the blogging on here ...
I do like to read your blog, but fully understand all of the frustrations

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