All she needs ...  

nightstogether 56M
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6/3/2005 12:26 am

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All she needs ...

How many men out there dream of sleeping with two or more women, and having those women play with one another too? Or, alternatively, how many men dream of watching two women as they make love with one another in a real lesbian scene? Whether they admit it or not, I suspect that the majority of men have these fantasies at one time or another.

So, I have to ask myself, why do I occasionally hear that old, time-worn, phrase 'all a lesbian needs is a good fucking from a real man, and then she'll change her ways.'?

Do these same people say the same for gay men, I wonder? All they really need is a good woman?

What exactly is it that makes people believe this fairy tale? And what constitutes a man who is good enough to change the sexual life of a woman? Judging by the statement I've heard, definitely not the men who are saying it! They seem to believe that a lesbian lifestyle consists only on a sexual level, and forget that there is far more to life and to living then what happens in the bedroom.

How would such a man go about changing the sexual preferences of someone else? Would they place themselves in the shoes of the preferred lover and add their own special tricks to the attempt, or would it be merely a male-dominant attempt? And, of course one of the most important questions of all, how would they convince a lesbian to even attempt such a thing with a man who, sexually, she finds totally unattractive?

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redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
6/3/2005 10:49 am

'all a lesbian needs is a good fucking from a real man, and then she'll change her ways.'?

Stupid comment made by stupid people....we are what we are when it comes to sexual preference.

nightstogether 56M

6/3/2005 1:31 pm

I agree with you, but how can anyone convince these people that they are wrong?

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rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
6/3/2005 2:03 pm

Great Blog. We all know what we like. To say Lesbians need this or that..I believe it is unique to that specific individual.

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
6/4/2005 9:14 am

i'm of the thinking a woman knows what a woman wants,there fore she can make love to a woman better than a man,so the saying would never ever work lol

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