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Code Of Honor
Code Of Honor
I was in blogland today and reading and came across a post and while this post wasnt directly about "cheating" it got me thinking about what is honorable and what is not. I will leave out the person because I dont want them to feel like Im attacking them or anything it just got me thinking about honor and loyalty and such.
My own personal views on whats cheating and whats not.
If your spouse/SO is kept in the dark about your activities that to me is a betrayal of trust. If you are sleeping around and your spouse/SO doesnt have a clue and trusts you completely that is wrong to me.
Trust someone fully means you leave yourself open to them fully. If you both have an understanding and a open relationship thats fine I have no problem with that.
Doing something that could DEEPLY hurt someone you supposedly care about is WRONG IMHO...Its unhealthy to keep secrets like that from your lover. Its also not fair to drag that person with you. If you are unhappy break it off let that person be free to find real happiness. and you will be free to find what you are looking for.
To the person that inspired this post. Im not judging you or looking down on you. If anything I hope you will take something positive from this. Granted I dont know your whole story just what I read in that one little post...anyway I wish you luck with it...peace
10/28/2005 3:44 am
How right you are...I only wish more men and women shared your beliefs on this subject.|