Bad Sex  

nightstalker172 36M
1646 posts
1/31/2006 5:22 am

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Bad Sex

I was thinking about this for some reason. I thought back to all the times Ive had sex And think Im pretty lucky that Ive only been with one woman that was bad to me. It was with a very agressive woman. Now I dont mind agressive women at all I rather like them sometimes. but this one was really bad. Now when I was younger I was alot more open to who I had sex with...could've been hormones or could of been my way of trying to heal my broken heart..or both...Now as you all know Im attracted to smaller women...mostly smaller than me..dont ask me why Ive always kind been that way when I was 6 I had a crush on one of my sisters friends she was 14 and really short and small...I guess I was hooked ever since...Shes still that way

Anyway the woman in question was a larger woman. and I was again TOO YOUNG...cant say how young because AdultFriendFinder got a stick up its butt when I mentioned it in the Alot of virgin talk post.

She was part black and part you can only imagine what kind of attitude that would spawn from that. Now she was a big woman. a couple inches taller than me..though she didnt outweigh me but she was alittle chunky. And her breasts were literally the size of water mellons She would put D cups to shame (which is probably why I like smaller ones). She had to be on top ALWAYS and she was heavier than I was used to. She would SLAM! against me and Im not kidding...I had alittle padding there you know from being fat myself but that didnt help...She was really into rough sex. Her breasts would blop in my face with every bounce. Normally that might be a nice thing but no it wasnt. It felt like someone slapping me none stop. AND GOD FORBID if I slipped out...well...I did was like being kicked in the balls hurt so much....AND THEN the bitch had the nerve to say it was my fault because I was "short"....Im like BULLSH*T if you werent a f*cking bouncing medician ball I would still have a lower body left. I would feel MY hips pop when under her. I would say she weighed about 230-250 and I was 275 at the time...We had sex a total of 3 times and the last time was when she "broke" me...I had enough. Since then I admit Ive shyed away from larger women..and by larger I mean pretty big they would have to be pretty big to be close to my size ..who knows maybe I was traumatized by that one rough one...I was sore for 2 weeks after that too.

So if you have bad sex with someone how many chances do you give them to improve before you either leave or step in and teach them?

By the way the woman in the pic is Katie Fey (not her real name of course) shes a amature model in europe. Shes in the pic on the last post too...She has the most beautiful face I have ever seen..granted its probably dry brushed by still...

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
1/31/2006 3:56 pm

This is too funny! So, it was break up with her, or end up in a wheelchair, paralyzed from the waist down? How long did you have to visit the chiropractor after she was done with you?

Now, you're still young. So is anyone you're doing. So, if someone sucks in bed, it's easy to teach them. However, when a person is a bit older, they think they know everything they need to know about sex. There is no teaching them, or breaking bad patterns. Therefore, you can pretty much tell the first time if it's going to be worth pursuing. If they have other qualities to recommend them, then yeah, someone will get a while to try to redeem himself. But otherwise, forget it.

popmuse01 35F

1/31/2006 5:34 pm

Depends on the personality of said person...or if they are open to learning.

If they refuse to learn, and the personality isn't really all that compatable, I'd give um maybe one more chance before cutting them off.

Oh the other hand..if they want to learn...hell yes I'm more than happy to help them become better lovers! It also helps to know that part of what you teach can be aided with the next person...who probably could help teach them more lol

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nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
1/31/2006 7:36 pm

I just sprained....ahem perminate damage...and actaully she kinda broke it off with me...I was too busy hurting...and actaully I dont think it was really the fact that she was was her technique more than anything..the extra mass just made it worse is all...any girl who BOUNCES like that whether it be 250 pounds or 100 pounds its going to hurt if the wrong move is made....but again I was really young then and well...I wasnt as strong 250 pounds I could manhandle with some effort though.....

NickRules999 39M
9464 posts
1/31/2006 9:47 pm

The gilr in the pic is a cuite.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

curious082385 31F
4925 posts
2/1/2006 4:22 am

I can't imagine how being that rough would have been that fun for her either though....but I guess to each their own, right?

nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
2/1/2006 3:01 pm

Popmuse - Yea I agree if its a person you really like in all other aspects then its worth trying to be patient in bed..or if they are new...but otherwise...there is no reason to waste the time if its just not working in any aspect...

Nick - HEY! get your mits off my woman j/k I could not agree more...I dare say shes prettier than Jennifer Love Hewitt (whos my favorite by the way)

Curious - honestly I really couldnt say if she was enjoying it or not...all I know is I wasnt...Im assuming she didnt since she broke up with me...not that I minded that much...I feel sorry for the next guy she hammered *shudder*

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