I am not a scumbag,,,,,i am just a horny man....lol  

nightnsa 48M  
96 posts
1/29/2006 9:04 am

Last Read:
5/15/2006 5:02 pm

I am not a scumbag,,,,,i am just a horny man....lol


Well I said I would chat about sex in my next post so here goes. It is hard for men to discuss sex (I think) on places like this without coming off as,or being grouped with the rest of the men as just being some slime ball horny guy, maybe that is my misconception...That just seems to be the response of most women on here, not just to me, but to other men too. Granted their are alot of creeps and scumbags out their I know, so i am sure it is hard on the women to tell also...just voicing some of my observations.
Lets face it, most of us are looking for something...may be it is a gender difference, maybe it is a communication thing, I do not know..maybe, generally speaking of course, men are on here looking for sex, and women are on here looking for some type of love or affection???
What does everyone else think...and how can this be overcome for us good guys who are just very horny men....

firestarter665 42M/39F

1/29/2006 4:11 pm

Us women are very finicky creatures. You have to catch us at the right time because we can blow hot and cold. LOL
Just kidding(somewhat)

Reading a lot of posts, I find that nore and more men are saying the same thing. I really have no idea as to what single women are looking for on this site. You would think that if they are looking for men That they are looking for sex also. Maybe they are just being too damn picky.

Don't try to overcome your horniness. Just find a woman who is just as horny. hehe


nightnsa 48M  
415 posts
1/30/2006 6:27 pm

i am looking...keep an eye out for me ok...


rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
1/31/2006 6:54 pm

Just be honest baby and dont be vulgar.

Purry {=}

Purry


SexyRycheBabe 44F
820 posts
2/6/2006 7:34 am

Personally, I think women are looking for a combination of both. Esp. the single women. We hate to say anything for certain because we might miss getting everything instead of only getting something.

For example, sure I love a horny guy but if I could find a single, horny guy who is kind and loving, funny and smart all wrapped in one, I'd much rather have that.

I don't mind reading about men's sexcapades... as long as they're straight men... and it's not vulgar or over the top. I also don't mind men who share their viewpoints on sex. Their likes and dislikes, etc... I think, this forum, in particular, offers the opportunity to really get to know how a person thinks and feels and what they desire.

Well, that works as long as everyone's honest and we all know already that a lot of them aren't!!! You should've told me you blogged... I would've been by here already.


nightnsa 48M  
415 posts
2/7/2006 6:00 am

sorry sexy...thought you knew,,
that makes good sense....
that is one of the reason for me starting this blog..is to hopefully actually get to know a little bit about someone instead of one line emails saying "hey lets get together and slam ham"

like that is gonna work....


SexyRycheBabe 44F
820 posts
2/7/2006 9:53 am

LOL... you're right.. making references to slamming ham will definitely not work around here. Or, ANYWHERE!!! You might want to work on your pick-up lines. Just a suggestion, you understand.


NSAAddict 42F

2/11/2006 3:41 pm

Hi Night! ...slam ham... now that's a new one for me! Love it, it wouldn't work mind you but it'd definitely make me laugh. I think opening lines are tough, you don't know the person you are writing to and like you said in your list of adjectives, you want them to know you are not all of those things. The emails that have intrigued me have always been original, sincere, friendly, funny and something said in them just connected with me, so that it made me want to learn more. The best email I received was from someone who had read my blog and sent me an email in my own Top Ten format, it was very original, hysterical, and I could tell by reading it that he took the time to "get to know me" before sending me an email. [post 190927] So I suggest telling someone a little about yourself, checking out their blog and profile for shared interests, and just be yourself, from what I've seen you should do just fine Good luck to you!


Speciallegal 61F

4/9/2006 10:29 am

Well i have been reading the replys here. Although I am a woman, I don't think women are looking for life-long partners in here. Most of us just want to come in, find someone who can make they orgasm and leave. I know, I am that way. No commitment. Just let me cum.. let me help you cum.. that's it. Now does that sound like someone who wants a commitment?


Become a member to create a blog