The Seduction  

nightis 52M
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4/17/2006 5:18 am

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9/18/2006 12:33 pm

The Seduction

To be seduced in to sex and passion is the ultimate compliment. Nobody loves to be seduced more than I. When someone tries to seduce you, could that be a sign of need on their part? Shouldn’t the seduced be considerate of the seducer’s needs? Perhaps the thrill for the seducer is most thrilled by his/her power of seduction.

How many of you have shamelessly or skillfully seduced a stranger, associate or friend?

For a man, the game of seduction is obviously different than that of a woman’s. It is so much more subtle.

lustcurious42 56F

4/17/2006 6:55 pm

I am sure I have been guilty of seducing a time or two, maybe three or four. But I think some seduce differently. It could be a case of subtle seduction over time, a few weeks. I used to go out with this girlfriend and sometimes I'd pick out a guy I was interested in and see if I could, without ever saying a word, get him to come to my table. And yes, I would seduce him because I wanted to have hot, wild, passionate sex. I think most of the time I'm a subtle seducer. When I'm seriously seducing anyway, it's subtle. If I'm all out there and more agressive, I'm probably not as interested (wow, like that makes any sense). But I find the seduction doesn't work as well as it did in my 20's. I used to just have to give the guy on the freeway a wink and he'd pull over. Now I gotta wink, beep my horn, and rear end him and half the time they still keep going (and you thought AdultFriendFinder was my only dating venue--ha!). I'd like to know more about your last comment that for a man, the game of seduction is obviously different than that of a woman's. It is so much more subtle. So, tell me about this game of seduction from a man's point of view.

nightis replies on 4/18/2006 6:08 am:
Let's face it, women that openly, aggressively try to pick-up and seduce men are few and far between. I personally have never experienced that. It is generally up to the men to seduce, do the "selling". Women can seduce a man with visual things; her body, her looks (and most attractive to me is a sensual attitude). A man has to sell to a woman's mind. He has to create attraction! In my case, I have a couple of years before I can consider even possibly looking for a long-term partner (it would be pretty difficult to bring a new woman into my boys' lives right now). That means the field is wide open. When I was younger, I would have chased after, begged and, I could care less whether I have a woman in my life. That in itself is attractive to a key type of woman. Don't get me wrong, I live for those female friends, but it is not the end-all! While these relationships are important, and the physical touch is paramount to my existence, why should I be in any hurry? I have been able to expand my field of friends and have enjoyed time with many. I put myself out there with a sort of "lasse faire" attitude. In addition, I present my intelligence front and center. Those that I would get bored with seem to quickly shy away and the quality few step forward! Maybe I shouldn't be giving out my secrets, but there is my subtle secret of seduction. Unfortunately, we are not talking minutes or hours is a long term process and I have spent some key nights at home recently without kids around.

As for working differently when you were in your 20s, well the changes are not your fault. Men are often in seach of their youth and they try to find it in the youth of women. I can't be the only man around that is looking for the touch and warmth of a woman that appreciates such trvial matters. I find women in their 40s so incredibly beautiful and sexy...they have lived, loved, lost and laughed and mothered; all of that experience brings with it a heightened plain of sensuality that must be soothed now and then.

lustcurious42 56F

4/18/2006 6:59 pm

Nightis, quit seducing me with words with "lasse faire". I'm so excited now.........

Seriously, I love intelligence and wit. What a turn-on.

nightis replies on 4/19/2006 5:39 am:
Am I that obvious?

lustcurious42 56F

4/21/2006 6:39 pm

I plan on doing some serious seducing tomorrow night. in fact, I've been practicing it on him the last few days. And he better act on it fast, and I have no doubt he will. But if by chance he didn't, I'd have to act on it. I've known him awhile, haven't seen him in a year or more but it was never more than a tease. This time I am all out seducing. We've had some conversations lately that have left me with a ache. In all seriousness, what do you mean by act on it? I'm thinking that tomorrow night I'm gonna seduce him into bed and I am going to be hearing the angels sing. I think, at the very least if you are being seduced, you need to be sending some very strong signals very quickly that it's working or us seducers are moving on to our next victim.

nightis replies on 4/22/2006 8:50 am:
Hell is working on me. My mind is racing at how you will look, how you will speak and those first touches that make aware of what you are doing. Could he be anticipating your show? That may take a little luster off, but if his mind is ready, he will truly appreciate the gift you are giving him and reciprocate!

I hope that you will let us know what detail!

Have a good time!

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