A Strange Twist  

nightis 52M
247 posts
4/22/2006 8:29 am

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4/22/2006 10:07 pm

A Strange Twist

Something that I never could have seen coming has happened. I had crossed a line (or so I thought) with a number of folks here on AdultFriendFinder. I was communicating with about seven or eight different ladies in the last couple of months on a regular basis. I dated one, attempted to set up a date with another and toyed with meeting a couple of others. We passed a key point where you think a friendship has developed. There are only two that communicate with me on a regular basis. Thanks Lusty and Shawna!

Now let it be known. I don't care how busy you are. I expect, no, demand, some form of communication at least once every week or two. Tell me what is going on in your life. Please, no whining about how busy you may be and let that be the end of it. It can be a form letter or better yet, a blog! I promise you that I respond to every email. Usually, quickly.

With regard to the "busy" qualification, I would challenge you to look at my schedule and wonder how I can develop and maintain friendships. It is simple, those that cross a certain line receive priority. I get up early on work days to answer emails! Some may have noticed the time many of my emails are written. Either early in the morning or late at night!

I am not on AdultFriendFinder anymore just solely for the warmth and sex! If you are lucky enough to spend time with me, you will have earned a friend. One that will take an interest in your life...if perhaps from a distance.

Enough said! Thank you all for your attention!



lustcurious42 56F

4/22/2006 12:44 pm

Thanks Nightis.....I enjoy your wit, your straightforwardness, your honesty so I enjoy your blogs. And hey, maybe the best two stuck around. I know what you mean and part of what you said is maybe what I was trying to convey in some of my earlier posts about hot and cold. I'll be interested in a guy, he's calling two or three times a week, very interested, we meet a few times, he still calls then suddently bam, you don't hear from them for weeks and you're left wondering what the hell. I figure it's the rotation of the list and I've been rotated off. It isn't like this was an exclusive relationship, but hey, just start off calling once a month. Don't reel me in like that just to cut me loose so quickly. And I don't meet just anybody and I talk and get to know them for quite awhile to make sure there is some substance there. And I don't go for the ones that hit on anything that moves. I'm not sure I'm cut out for this, I'm really not. But I expect some sort of consistency. Even if that consistency is a call saying hey, I have alot of things going on in my life and I'm not going to be too available the next few weeks. I can respect that. I guess that is the reason I decided not to meet new men from this site. It seems like a game and everyone plays it differently. A friend once told me I get what I receive implying that I am not one to make phone calls to guys and such. Life is so confusing and fun at times. And talk about busy, I have a great career, I commute 3 hours a day, I have 3 kids, I'm starting my own business, and I still find time to write and be in contact with those whose company I enjoy. How empty life would be if I didn't.


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