3rd Date & Beyond  

nightis 53M
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5/31/2006 11:21 am

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6/2/2006 8:42 pm

3rd Date & Beyond

I am sure that you all remember my campaign about three dates or bust (The Three Date Minimum on May 4th). Technically, I am scheduled to have my 4th date tomorrow with a lady friend that I met here on AdultFriendFinder as well as Area 151.

It is funny when you meet people from AdultFriendFinder, you find that they are real people. In my experience, I they have not been freaks, liars or drug attics. They have been people that show a genuine interest and making friendships with others and hoping for the possibility of a sexual partner. Once that sexual line is crossed, you find that there is a dragon inside, hiding and waiting to surface. You may remember this quote after one of my first dates with this lady.

"She is your next door neighbor, your children's teacher, someone whose sexual health needed a little tender care."

What's that I hear from the balcony, a few whistles, groans and hisses. You say you are tired of the jerks, liars, gamers and players. Guys have a distinct advantage that way on AdultFriendFinder. The market we shop is smaller and a good reader and judge of character can weed through and find some pretty intelligent candidates. Ladies, I am not sure what to say about your experience on AdultFriendFinder, but my female friend, who is intelligent, cautious, and open-minded has few bad things to say. She has wondered at times whether she fits in on AdultFriendFinder. In a way, she doesn't, but after experiencing her bliss in sexual matters, I would have to say that the careful acquisition of a good partner and friend is what it is all about.

Despite my grumblings and impatience, it has repeatedly worked for me.



lustcurious42 56F

5/31/2006 9:27 pm

I'm glad that things are working out well for you. I have often wondered about myself belonging on A F F but as my new guy says, I fly my freak flag pretty high. I kinda feel like it's at half mast. Like yourself, I have met some great friends......both male and female and some friendships that I believe will be with me through a lifetime. I expect alot from my friends and feel truly lucky to have the circle of friends that I do. As with all of life, honesty and communication seem to be the key. For some, this is a new experience (yeah, I've only been here 5 years or so.......you'd think I get it by now) and it's hard at times when you are seeing multiple partners. Schucks, it's hard at times when you're seeing one. At any rate, it's great you both are enjoying your time together and conversations.


nightis replies on 6/1/2006 7:02 am:
I kind of gathered that from you Lusty that you have had a pretty good time on AdultFriendFinder. I have only been here a year and a half, had some great times, a long drought and now I am back in the thick of things again. Quite a feat considering my schedule. It is a place where frank discussion, experience and yes honesty are paramount.

As for my friend and I; the need to meet new people is on the backburner for the time being.

expatbrit49 62M

6/2/2006 5:52 pm

Interesting approach to things and if that is her... nice legs

Thank You for Your Time and Attention


nightis replies on 6/2/2006 8:45 pm:
That is her and yes, she has very nice legs!

Thanks for dropping by!

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