niceneasy200541 52F
100 posts
1/3/2006 5:41 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


now that i have updated my profile, given a bit more of what i am looking for, who i am, etc., i have not had any emails or invites.

i guess one does not really wish to get to know a person. rather, someone they can play with is more to their liking.

i still do not get how one can just fuck another person... oh wait, yes, indeed, it is the sex part that is just sex. no emotion, no truth, don't give me all the "stuff" just let me ravish your body...

maybe that is what this place is all about. maybe i am a bit dillusional in thinking that there are ppl out there that do care for another person, unconditionally, and not have to really worry that i will want them to leave their wife or significant other to marry me.

oh wait, i'm married, yeah, not going to do that again even if another would wish to... been there, done that.

rm_ohsolustful 58M
859 posts
1/4/2006 7:36 am

I know it's hard to stay positive, But you have too, People are much more attractive when they are smiling and laughing, Don't life get you down. SMILE and good luck with your search, hang tough

niceneasy200541 52F
16 posts
1/4/2006 8:04 am

Thanks ohsolustful, you are a dear one.

I love to smile, I enjoy laughing. I love the kind of belly laugh, you know the ones that babies do for the first time? It is a great feeling.

I'm not really down, I guess I can still be amazed how ppl react to one another. I'm not from this world it seems. I don't understand much and to be honest not sure I want to.

I see how ppl treat other ppl. It is a shame. A little reality dose I suppose for me.

Thanks again,

rm_ohsolustful 58M
859 posts
1/5/2006 6:28 am

Yeah people can be very hurtful at times, even when they are not trying. Once hurt it can take quite a while to get over the pain, anger, self doubt and frustration of it all. I don't think I was right in the head for many years after the anguish and pain of my divorce. It took a while and an awful lot of sowing of the wild oats to get me back on track..It never really goes away completely, which is good, because it is thru those bad times that we learn about ourselves and become better people in the end...Life is one great BIG learning curve

rm_JoeyD1214 59M
398 posts
1/9/2006 4:05 pm

Hi Nice N Easy,
You seem like an honest and truly deep lady! Would love to know more about you and what you are seeking! Don't let the bastards get you down! You can email me if you like and I would love to hear more.

MovingOn001 61M
900 posts
1/10/2006 8:52 am

It is through the experiences we have in our lives, both the positive and those that are more challenging, that we learn the lessons we need to learn in order to grow as humans. It is through learning these lessons that we become stronger and gain wisdom. There are many times I wish I was not nearly as wise as I have found myself. lol But, I also wouldn't change any of those things either, as those experiences have made me the person I am today.

As tough as it may be, try to keep your chin up. After all, it makes it MUCH easier to kiss you.

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