Greetings...  

niceneasy200541 52F
100 posts
12/27/2005 11:08 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Greetings...


to those who would read this. New to this and wondering about all the hype about sex and all. I've not been with that many men, and no women, and not sure why sex is something that I seem to be missing out on.

Is it purely instinctual, animalistic, emotional, spiritual or what?

What is it about golden showers? Is this something people do to enjoy themselves or is this disrespect as I'd not be willing to be peed on.

What is it about ass-play? Is this something that is pleasurable? Who is willing to try these things and why does anyone even thing of this thing? What pleasure can come from another messing with your ass? (This can be answered by straight, bi or homosexuals as I really wish to learn and not offend)

Thanks for reading...



rm_ohsolustful 58M
859 posts
12/28/2005 12:32 pm

Its all about giving pleasure to your partner if that is what they want, relaxing and enjoying. I have known more than a few Ladies who liked the anal thing. I can say I have never done the golden shower thing or been with anyone who wanted that so as to it , I have no clue, it doesnt appeal to me and I am not sure I could do it to her even if she wanted it, It all seems to degrading. Not the way a Lady should be treated at all. Ya have to repect your partner, doing whatever it takes to satisfy her is one thing, but that seems to go too far...Welcome to blogland by the way, have fun


niceneasy200541 52F
16 posts
12/28/2005 6:53 pm

very good reply. i agree ohsolustful. respect is a very important part of any relationship. thanks for replying to me and welcoming me to bogland. pretty interesting things these blogs.


quietstorm101 59M
45 posts
12/30/2005 11:47 am

Respect is being able to give your partner pleasure. Respect is listening to your partners needs and leraning about them and yourself. Sex is instinctual, and learned. Sex is a opportunity to express yourself with another(s) in a way that connects like no other. Pleasure both physical, emotional. If you have not been outside of your comfort zone a little you may not have had the chance to experince your ultimate. Sex starts with the mind, and what you can try.
peace


MECHANICALGOD 42M

12/30/2005 10:38 pm

FINALLY AN HONEST & INTERESTING QUESTION ABOUT " SEX " !!
FIRST I'D JUST LIKE TO SAY HELLO.
I THINK I UNDERSTAND YOUR POINT OF VEIW ON THE SUBJECT, I'M A 31 YEAR OLD GUY & HAVE ONLY BEEN WITH A HAND FULL OF GIRLS MYSELF , INFACT WHEN I TELL MOST PEOPLE HOW LONG IT'S BEEN OR HOW FEW, THEY LOOK AT ME LIKE I'M LYING.
BUT THATS THE THING " SEX " IS JUST NOT ON THE TOP OF MY PRIORITY LIST !!DON'T GET ME WRONG I DO ENJOY IT & WHO EVER I'M WITH AT THE TIME & SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE I'M MISSING OUT TOO !!
I JUST LOOK AT THE WORLD ALOT DIFFERENT THAN MOST THOUGH, I DON'T LOOK AT WOMAN AS STRICTLY OBLIGATED SEX OBJECTS !!
AS FOR SEX BEING INSTINCTUAL, SPIRITUAL, ANIMALISTIC , ETC.. WELL I THINK YOU'RE RIGHT IT CAN BE ALL THAT & MORE DEPENDING ON THE PEOPLE INVOLVED & W/ EACH PERSON IT'S DIFFERENT.
GOLDEN SHOWERS WELL, YOU EITHER LIKE THEM OR NOT, SAME AS ANAL OR ANY OTHER SEXUALLY RELATED TOPIC !! IT'S WHATEVER YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE W/ OR ARE WILLING TO TRY. I BELIEVE YOUR PARTNER SHOULD RESPECT THAT AS WELL.
SO, DON'T WORRY ABOUT FEELING LEFT OUT , EVERYONES LIFE EXPEIRENCE MOVES AT A DIFFERENT PACE.
THATS MY OPINION... LATER !!


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