neotrio 41M/38F
1469 posts
6/14/2006 5:02 pm

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i posted this sometime last year. but i thought i'd pull it out of the archives because a)it still applies b)there are a few new readers who might be interested and mostly c)can't think of anything to post today. lol. so here goes:

generally when it comes to sex, i would say that i am a pleaser. i'd like to say that it's because i'm so giving and generous. unfortunately, i think it actually stems from not being satisfied early on in my sexlife. teenage boys are mostly interested in "getting off." which can have a damaging effect on teenage girls. these girls may go on through life having unsatisfying sex, never knowing the possibilities, experiencing the ecstasy. i knew there had to be a way to get more pleasure out of sex than i was getting, after all my partners seemed to be having a grand ol' time.

so i started to adapt, evolve. i examined the situation; these guys were getting satisfaction out of things that i could do to them, for them, with them. perhaps i too could get satisfaction out of things that i was doing to them, doing for them and with them....hmmm...

and so my new pleasure became giving pleasure. watching their faces as i went down, hearing them groan, watching them bite their lips, the look in their eyes as they felt me from the inside for the first time...the next time. i guess i figured that at least one of us was going to have mind blowing sex...probably not me-but i really started to enjoy being a blower of minds.

i'm something of a geek...so i did my homework. i'd read, ask questions, observe the occasional porn flick all in the name of developing my technique, techniques. "what gets guys off?" this quest to be the best is still in practice..."never stop learning" i always say.

then as i got little older and finally when "the man" came into my life i realized that i could have my cake and get eaten too...er...eat you too...uh......eat it too. i finally asked myself, "what gets me off?" we devoted a lot of time to experiments, practice and test runs...man it was hard work but we finally figured it out.

turns out my thing is foreplay. (making up for lost time perhaps?...hmmmm???) i get the most pleasure from everything that comes before intercourse....from the flirting to the kissing, touching and caressing, ear lobes, nape of my neck, tickling, whispers and hot breath in my ear....oooohhhh....(takes a moment to collect herself).....that's what really does it for me. that's my cake, everything else is just icing.

i still consider myself a more of a pleaser...i tend to put my partners pleasure before my own...but i know what i like, "the man" knows...and now, all of you know so i've pretty much covered all bases.

(picks up cake-knife) "so....anyone wanna slice?"

4awhile3 56M
6 posts
6/15/2006 1:47 am

of course, silly question, i'd love a slice of the angel food cake with shredded coconut topping. so if two pleasers get together do they compliment each other or does it become competitive, where one tries to out do the other? would new heights of pleasure be reached or would resentment enter? just curious and experimental

toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
6/15/2006 2:07 am

I remember that post. And I remember asking for a slice. Is it too much to ask for more?
If I promised to be a very good boy... and gave in to lots and lots of foreplay?...
mmm... [phew, is it summer already or is it just getting hot in here?...]


sexedcravednemph 35M/30F
260 posts
6/16/2006 11:16 pm

I remember that post. I would like a slice. But not a small slice.... I am a big cake fan

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
6/18/2006 6:16 pm

4awhile3-awwww...how sweet. (he thinks i'm angel food cake. heh heh.)

but to answer your question, two pleasers getting together just makes for A LOT of pleasure

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
6/18/2006 6:19 pm

toothy- summer, winter, fall....doesn't matter. the two of us in a room together would be too sweltering for cake....but i've got something sweet for you.

kisses on your toothy smile.

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
6/18/2006 6:30 pm

sexcravednemph-mmm...i like a girl who likes her cake. one slice-o-neo coming right up

needsum671 40M
67 posts
6/18/2006 8:56 pm

Yes a slice would be nice... And Ill show you how Ill take my time licking on the icing before indulging on slice ...Because I'm a pleaser just like you....

Ps I love your blogs

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
6/18/2006 11:58 pm

needsum-i've said it before and i'll say it again...a pleaser plus a pleaser only makes for LOTS-O-PLEASURE! heh heh.

thanks for stopping by and for the kind remark. as long as you guys keep reading...i'll keep blogging. (who am i kidding? i'll blog anyway, but it's nice to know someone's reading)

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