"sighs" matters  

neotrio 41M/38F
1469 posts
10/8/2005 9:46 am

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"sighs" matters

Don’t you just love the sounds of a lover?

Hearing a lover's moans, breathing, sighs and other sounds really gets me going. It gets my blood pumping, my juices flowing and my heart racing. Listening to a lover's sounds clues you into what you’re doing right…and very right.

A lot of people would say that they are more visually stimulated, which I am, but more so with audio and not just with lovemaking. I love chatting through messenger and whatnot but what I look forward to more is talking on the phone. I’m a sucker for voices. Strong, deep voices on men and low, raspy voices on women…mmmm. Not everyone gives good voice but other benefits are that the conversation moves faster and you get reaction that is more real than “lol” and “lmao.” Oh laughing…*sigh…that’s another sound I enjoy. I love to laugh and think a good laugh is sexy.

I was chatting just with a couple today but had to get out on the road so we decided to talk on the phone while I was driving. She and I couldn’t stop laughing. I mean arms flailing about; choking, crying- we were just cracking each other up. It was the sexiest thing…..


toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
10/8/2005 1:50 pm

Ah, yes, neo... but not just that.
I love the laughter. But don't forget: The sounds two bodies make, especially when they 're intimate, even the sounds of the sheets.
I love the smells, both in terms of ragrances worn and the smell my lover's body gives off.
I love the feel of her skin, the texture of her hair, the softness of her insides.
The taste of her, flowing into my body, staying in my mouth.

But most importantly, just looking in her eyes takes my breath away.

MisterPriapus 57M
6980 posts
10/8/2005 6:51 pm


No doubt about it, the sounds a lover makes are both pleasing and informative. The very nature of superb love-making involves dialing back higher brain functions just a bit. Having to literally communicate, "I want this," or, "THAT felt really good," is contrary to that slight conscious disconnect needed to truly connect with your partner (Does appreciation for those sounds make it Aural Sex..?).

Smells play a huge part for me as well. I'm not talking about perfumes, fragrances, DO, or any other manufactured odors... the warm aromas that a clean, healthy body create as a living organism goes thru it's day.

If you can't be Good in bed, at least be Funny... optimally both, please!!! Physical intimacy is so heightened when laughter is shared while love-making.

This makes perfect sense to me- don't you expect to smile or laugh when you're having a really good time... and what better time is there than when making-love?

An additional benefit is purely selfish- when a woman laughs, especially belly-laughs, her pussy's pubo-coccygeal muscles contract in time with her laughter... and I just love feeling that laughter with my cock!

This might explain why humor is so important to me..!


Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.

And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written!



rm_DramaFree671 44M

10/8/2005 7:59 pm

I'm hard of hearing, when can you "sign" for me?

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
10/11/2005 12:18 am

toothy-mmmm....talk about sensory overlaod.

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
10/11/2005 12:24 am

Mr.P-aural sex? are you kidding me? that's what i was going to title this entry...i was going between the two titles. how funny...speaking of funny. if you're talking about funny in bed, i am the poster child for "funny in bed" which you probably read about in an earlier post My Sexual Misadventures

i'm sure no woman with you can resist throwing her head back in both laughter and pleasure.

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
10/11/2005 12:33 am

mandingo-(loudly)heh heh...what are you right now?wink wink

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
10/11/2005 4:09 am

mandingo-(loudly)heh heh...what are you doing right now?wink wink

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