"O" my..."the man" and the myth  

neotrio 41M/38F
1469 posts
11/21/2005 6:00 am

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"O" my..."the man" and the myth

i've had a lot of good sex in my lifetime, i've had some great sex and plenty of bad sex but in all my experience some things still managed to elude me until recently...one in particular...

first of all, i've been bi-curious for just about as long as i've been interested in sex and recently i was able to experience pleasuring and being pleasured by a women, women. it was everything i thought it'd be. supple lips upon my own, soft skin against soft skin, sensual, the high pitched sounds of ecstasy that only a woman could make, beautiful.......

more recently the topic of swinging came up. sharing myself with another person while i watch "the man" sharing himself with another woman from across the room....exciting. being pleasured by another man whilst "the man" watches from his chair, his throne... exhilarating. coming home and telling him juicy details of a sexy, not-so-secret rendezvous. becoming so excited and aroused that he'd take me, mid-sentence and rewrite the ending. ah...the life of a swinger....another thing to cross off my "to-do" list, although i have to admit, i don't think we're anywhere near "to-done" with it. LOL!

but as exciting as these new adventures with new people have been, my single greatest sexual moment thus far was with my fiancé', to whom i affectionately refer to as "the man" if anyone has chatted with me or read my blog at all-a nickname that he's not too sure he likes, but i think it's great and fitting because as far as i'm concerned he is "THE" man.

now, i've always heard about it, read about it, thought about it...but never really believed in it. it was a myth, a falsehood, an untruth...and because i'd never experienced it...a flat out lie! nobody had ever taken the time, or cared enough to show me, prove to me that it did in fact exist, that "they" weren't lying, the truth behind the myth...

then one night we were making love. it was sweet, it was lovely. bodies moving in perfect rhythm, a slow love ballad. what was different this night was that soon, almost immediately, after we came, instead of stopping and resting in each other's tired arms...we didn't. we kept going. things started to really heat up; soft kisses slowly became more firm, closed eyes became intense staring, caressing turned to squeezing, tasting to biting...wanting to needing. then it happened...another orgasm...

the world of sex as i knew it shattered that night. i'd never had a multiple orgasm before. in the early days, i hate to admit it but it'd be a treat, a nationally declared holiday, if i even got one. but "the man" changed my entire point of view. i'm happy to say that i've had multiple, multiple orgasms. i know that they're real, i no longer scoff at the articles, raise a cynical brow at the stories because...well because i have a man, "the man", who takes the time and aims to please.

so...to end this i'd like to say that if any of you would like to practice the art of giving multiple orgasms and need someone to practice on (points at self. LOL.)....and if any of you ladies are still skeptical after my testimonial, I’m sure he'd be more than happy to prove it to you...and if you wouldn't mind, being that i have some experience in the topic now, perhaps i'd join in as his teaching assistant MULTIPLE ORGASMS 101....shhh...class is now in session.

dreamsofelysium 43M/35F
1 post
11/21/2005 9:28 am

dreamsofelysium When we read your Blog, we just looked at one another and nodded. You get it. We too, have been fortunate enough to find in one another's arms that comfortable bliss that lies somewhere on the other side of unalduterated tenderness. Sounds like "Your Man" has successfully achieved what 99% of men fail to even contemplate, much less put into practice.
From my personal experience, I have found that it is frustratingly unproductive to expound upon this wonderland of pleasure and tranquility we have been fortunate enough to discover. Espousing to others seems to only invite the reflexive, flat disbelief and eye-rolling of those too cynical to believe such a thing possible in a world that seems so bereft of the selflessness that such a love would require from a man.
Perhaps it is a subconcious fear of acknowledging such a deep level of intimacy exists, for to do so would set forth a new standard of fulfillment, inevitably leading to the subsequent self assessment of one's own personal life. It is this basic unwillingness to effectively lay bare those gross inadequacies currently existing within their own relationships that causes their casual dismissiveness.
Who knows? Who even cares? I don't. I just smile and rest assured in the knowledge that I have been blessed enough to find a lover in which to share these experiences, together reaching a pinnacle that could never be found in the arms of another.

toothysmile 50M
16515 posts
11/21/2005 2:44 pm

er, ... many happy returns?...

please let me know if there ever arises a need for a substitute teacher...

my many kisses.

MisterPriapus 56M
6980 posts
11/21/2005 5:29 pm


{b]Beautifully written! Thank You for sharing!

Congratulations on getting past the "Ones" in your Multiplication Table, Darlin', tho sympathies that it's taken so long to get there...

Now, while the lesson is still fresh, I'd suggest practice- lots and LOTS of practice!!!



Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.

And while I got my Broad-Brimmed Pimping Hat on, could I cajole all of y'all to Comment on, Alone In A Cloud? It's probably the best thing that I've written!



Wordsmith2004 36M
7233 posts
11/21/2005 8:19 pm

Well aren't we feeling a bit snuggley smug?


Seriously, welCUM to the club...I'll be mailing you your membership discount card shortly...

Oh yeah, really, haven't you heard of it? The commericials?

What's going on with that chick and all the deals at the "Big O"


Seriously again...good stuff....mmmm

Has "THE Man" every tried to make you cum with the "clock clit" method?

Works like a charm!

His Horniness,


Conserve Water and Prevent Global Warming: Shower With A MILF!

sexedcravednemph 35M/31F
260 posts
11/21/2005 10:03 pm

Beautifully written neo. And i know exactly what you mean. As I never experienced mulitiples....shamely i never even experienced an orgasm until i got with my Mr.man. I am also happy to hear that your bi experience turned out great for you. *kisses*

guam_couple 48M/34F

11/21/2005 11:47 pm

well girl friend glad to hear it all went well hope to read more about your bi experience and hopefully we will get to be in the same room with you on your next one so let us know whats up ok.

75 posts
11/22/2005 4:49 am

Wow Neo.. Are we raising the BAR or are you telling those who havent gotten the message yet "Your not Looking for a replacement"? I know that every man wants to be the one that takes the woman to greater heights than any other man has. But few realize that women want to be taken by the one they are taken by (humm does that sound right..?) So, once again, warning to the wise. Neo has her HERO.. Oh, I'm not crossing myself off the class roster yet... I never turn down an oppertunity to learn.

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
11/24/2005 3:04 pm

dreams-thanks for dropping by my blog. it's great to hear that people can relate to you...maybe it's comforting to find like minded friends with whom you can open up to about the lifestyle....or maybe it just makes us feel less like perverts. LOL.

sounds like you guys have a great thing going, as do we. enjoy, we sure are

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
11/24/2005 3:07 pm

toothy-of course! as long as you promise to use a "hands-on" approach

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
11/24/2005 3:50 pm

MrP-yeah, thanks....looks like i'm not the math dunce we all thought i was. and as for your suggestion of "lots and lots of practice"...heh heh...i totally intend on it.

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
11/25/2005 6:04 am

wordy-thanks for the kudos. i have seen those commercials, they make me giggle everytime...

so....what is this method of which you speak...enlighten us, please.

neotrio 41M/38F
1213 posts
11/25/2005 6:18 am

sexed-thanks...about the multi orgasms...sorry you haven't had the chance to experience them yet, but perhaps one day. in the meantime...one is better than none. lol.

as for the "bi-stuff" i have had some experience with that, all good ones looking forward to more...wink wink, hint hint....

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