What a fun life!  

neocpl8 44M/40F
29 posts
8/22/2005 3:48 pm

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11/28/2006 4:24 pm

What a fun life!

Someone tell me again why this is "bad"? What a strange concept! We are so content with our life right now and fun "extra" activities! It's hard to believe that this lifestile is considered by most of our culture to be "bad". Aside from the obvious health risk if you are not careful, and the possible emotional trama if you are not prudent in selecting a propper match, it's really quite "good"! Not to mention we have met quite a few really fun people!

joe4now2000 40M
3 posts
10/7/2005 2:34 pm

Hello neocpl8,

How are you guys just thought I would say hi. I'm somewhat new to this and I was looking for some friends. Would you guys care to chat or give me some hints on where to go to find friends like you.


1/6/2006 10:05 am

I think this lifestyle is only labeled "bad" because our society is intimidated and threatened by anything that doesn't fit nicely into the traditional "box". But I’ve read that swinging has come a long way in popularity and social acceptance which is promising. I guess we just have to realize that people fear anything that is different, and that goes well beyond swinging.

neocpl8 44M/40F

3/18/2006 10:26 pm

Now THAT"S the truth! Fear of change and anything different is very evident in our society.

neocpl8 44M/40F

3/18/2006 10:30 pm

Thank you Joe. We AdultFriendFinder chat some times, but not too often. My advice, don't give up. You will find the "right" people if you perservere.

rm_troubleup 49M
1 post
5/27/2006 9:06 pm

Hello neocpl8 I'm new to this would you help me find new friends email/chat would be great full Thanks

rm_Erus_Amans 41M
23 posts
6/24/2006 1:12 pm

Now the question is, is it society as a structure or society as a people that think that it is bad? As a structure society has no real opinion on rather something is bad or good, but it is the people that make up that society. For example there are many societies in Europe (with older roots than the U.S.) that are verry sexually free, and even in Canada you can find the same. Now the people that make up the American society are primarly stuck on a bigger issue than sexual morality. You see a large majority of Americans seem to be (for a lack of better term) ignorant when it comes to human sexuality. This is something that comes from a genarational lack of information, and fear of talking about it. The fact of the matter is that "Altnertavie Sexual Practices" are in fact more natural than the standard norm. Everything that you may see in nature is constantly changing, everything that is except for humanity. Therefore the conclusion must be that; the society based on the people that are in it are unnatural and therefore wrong acording to the world itself.

----sorry if I rambled there----

rainbowsmurfet 38F

7/14/2006 6:55 pm

Erus... you have wonderful rambles... I like reading what you say. And I totally agree, though I fear words would have failed me in trying to say what you said in your post... *sigh*

rm_marriedfrs 61M/63F
3 posts
10/5/2006 4:32 pm

we are brand new to this and flat out love it! there's nothing better than adding another, or others, to a great night of sex! we can see how it could become addictive, and we definately just want to have a select few to play with, but let's play often!!!!

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