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Sexual Intoxication ....
Sexual Intoxication ....
Some women have sexual auras that ooze out of their every pore. They have no shame in being sexy and don't attempt to conceal it. There are other women who aren't very sexual or sensual, aren't big on the idea of getting sweaty between the sheets and would rather read a book than lie in the pretzel position for 15 minutes. Finally, there are women that are quiet and shy when they're sober, but animalistic and insatiable when they're not.
Everyone knows what I'm talking about because we've all encountered such a woman at some point in our lives. Why, you may wonder, do some women feel that the only way they can enjoy sex is by getting drunk? Well, you've come to the right place because this article focuses on some of the reasons why women feel the need to pump a couple of Tequila shots into their system, before letting out screams of pleasure and letting loose.
Some women still believe that sex is a sin and their frame of mind does not permit their inhibitions to come to life. Therefore, in order to let go of those ancient beliefs, they must alter their state of consciousness by woofing down a couple of alcoholic beverages. This allows them to forget their mindset regarding sexual dexterity, and allows them to enjoy the moment for the night and wallow in self-denial the next morning.
This "sexual transgression" pattern is learned in childhood and is really difficult to unleash. Although difficult, it is possible for them to learn that sex is not simply for reproduction and that women are not labeled "hussies" just because they happen to be fond of sex.
Some women fear that if they have sex liberally while sober, they will be deemed tramps. Their fear stems from hearing bad things about sexually active girls in high school and college. You know, the ones that made out with lots of guys and had the reputation of a rock-band groupie. Well, because they don't want to be labeled negatively, alcohol is used as the scapegoat to cover up all the devilish things they have done during the course of an erotic night.
Alcohol becomes the vortex between the animal and the docile virgin. The most serene woman can transform into a sex maniac within 3 Long-Island Iced Teas and a shot of Vodka. These women want to be lively in bed but feel that they cannot unchain their innermost sexual desires without having first downed a keg of beer.
Some women like to rub it, smack it and attack it but ultimately have a fear of letting these outbursts shine through in their customary personality. They want to be spanked, they want to scream, they even want to feel pleasure through pain, but since the only women they know who do these freely are adult film stars, they cannot unleash the demon within. Instead, they use alcohol as the means by which they can behave the way they really want.
By acting as though this animal only comes out during intoxicative moments, they can get away with the notion that this isn't really who they are and what they like. They live under the delusion that alcohol has some sort of "Jekyll and Hyde" effect on them when, in fact, this is who they really are. They love sex -- and aggressive sex at that -- but they don't want to believe that they could become the next up-and-coming porn stars.
If you are having a strictly sexual relationship with a woman and the only time you have sex is when she's drunk, chances are she doesn't really like you very much. The reason she's having sex with you is because it's a steady thing and she doesn't care for you, and can therefore do whatever she wants without a care in the world. Being drunk is the only way she can allow herself to get off with someone she's not totally turned on by.
You have basically become a blow-up doll with a pulse for this woman because she's using you. If the only time she calls is when she reeks of Jack Daniels, then you have become what is popularly known as a "booty call". Welcome to the wonderful world of exploitation gentlemen...you have arrived.
So while some women need alcohol to rid them of inhibitions, others believe that sex, in and of itself, is sinful and they therefore have to get liquored up in order to enjoy the ride. Whatever the case may be, alcohol and sex have been interrelated from the beginning of time and will remain this way forever.
What women need to realize is that sex is not a sin. It is a wonderful experience shared by two consenting adults. Pleasures vary according to individual preferences, but some women need to realize that sex is not simply a method of procreation. Enjoying sex is not a religious violation, no matter what our mothers said. Thus the next time you're with a lady, whether she is drunk or sober, look her in the eyes and make sure her senses enjoy what's happening around her and within her.
Other women who feel that it is undeniably wrong to be in love with sex are simply mistaken. Sex is a marvelous experience and when partners are sober and truly conscious of every breath, kiss and touch, the sexual experience becomes so much more intensified and meaningful. Love and sex may not go hand in hand as often as they used to, but like the famous song says, "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with".
Until next time, be safe, love life and treat your women like gold.