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Let Your Fingers Take Control ....
Let Your Fingers Take Control ....
Do you enjoy exploring your woman's secret garden with your fingers? Are you having a hard time figuring out how to satisfy her completely? Well then welcome to today's lesson on fingers and vaginas and how the two can get quite friendly.
Keeping your hands clean and your nails trimmed is probably the most important tip for any man. After all, if your hands aren't clean, do you think she'll let you anywhere near her sacred garden?
Not only can blunt fingernails cause discomfort, they can cause infections of the yeasty kind. So remember that first and foremost, your hands must be clean and your fingernails should be as short and neat as possible.
You don't have to get crazy on her in order to drive her crazy. Teasing her with your fingers is a wonderful thing in itself. Use your middle finger to gently rub her clitoris. As she begins to get mildly moist down there, you may become a little more abrupt with your rubdown (so to speak). Circular motions are usually preferred by women.
If she begins to get a little antsy and starts maneuvering around somewhat, read her body language and determine whether she's pleased or not. If she likes to have her clitoris rubbed with one finger, then imagine how much she'll love it if you use two!
When you begin with two fingers, you can become slightly more aggressive since by now she's more receptive to your fingers. Depending on your lady, you can get either more aggressive or remain gentle -- you will know by her reaction.
The reason that fingers are sometimes better than penises is because of their ability to maneuver more adequately. You can always hit the g-spot with your fingers whereas it's a hit-or-miss situation with Mr. Slimy.
When you put your fingers inside her, don't be afraid to explore her insides. Now I'm not referring to naming all the parts inside her as you touch them, but rather get to know what she likes by her reactions.
As she will inevitably become wet, begin stroking her faster. Go in and out at a constant pace, reverting from her vagina back to her clitoris. If you can use your tongue on her clitoris whilst inserting your fingers inside her, she'll be all the more thankful.
Whisper to her, ask her if she likes it, if you should go deeper, if you should lick, finger or rub her. Ask yes or no questions or she may lose the mood. Let her concentrate on pleasure; not teaching you the art of using fingers.
For all you gentlemen who would like to get a little freaky with your "willing to try anything once" women, why not use her mouth to moisten your fingers? Place your fingers in her mouth and let her suck on them before you even begin to rub her with them.
On another kinky front, why not make her suck your fingers after you collect all her juices on them? After you make her climax, take your orgasm-covered fingers and slide them into her mouth. Let her show you what she can do to your manhood when she's revved up.
Let her know what she tastes like -- most women love the taste of their own juice. If you want to let her taste more, then why not wrap your mouth around her privates and then give her a deep, wet kiss?
Creativity is the key in any kind of sexual act. When you're using your fingers on her, you can usually predict what she's feeling by her expressions. If she begins breathing heavy and saying "Yes! Deeper! Faster! More!", then it's quite likely that she wants to devour you.
On the other hand, if she begins getting squeamish or tries to stop you from continuing, then it's likely that she's not enjoying your efforts.
All you really need to do to learn what it takes to please her is rely on her feedback.
Until next time, wash those hands boys, it's going to be a wet ride!