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I've been seeing a lot of kvetching here lately from men complaining about women.
Dont get me wrong, I really do empathize with you guys. From what I see, women out number the men here by a ridiculous proportion, so it makes it harder and harder for you guys to meet the girl of your dreams.
But honestly, bitching about it and insulting us women by calling us fakes and liars ISNT going to get you the cookies. The Mr. and I havent been members very long, but I'm already developing a list of pet peeves...
Read profiles!!! We've carefully worded our profile to tell people exactly who we are and what we are looking for. If you dont fit our criteria, dont bother asking to meet me. I seriously doubt I would be compatible with someone who cannot respect my wishes.
Your wink/email does NOT mean I am obligated to respond in kind. I do read emails and look at profiles of people who contact me. If I am interested, I can assure you that I will respond. But again, if you dont fit what I am looking for (as stated in my profile) then dont expect a response.
To be honest, a lot of profiles I cannot even view. I'm sorry, but I'm a poor wench and things like electricity and food for my kids take priority over a fancy paid membership. This doesnt lessen my sincerity, it just narrows the field for me and I understand that is the price I pay for being cheap. Maybe when I find a Sugar Daddy I'll have all the beeps and whistles.
Play nice people, m'kay? If its meant to be, then all the chips will fall in place. The universe has a way of giving us what we need precisely when we need it most, or at least that's what I believe.