Suck it up and put the Big Girl panties on!!  

nefanddy 52M/52F
16 posts
6/29/2005 6:27 pm

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Suck it up and put the Big Girl panties on!!


I swear that is becoming my favorite new phrase to use on people!

I have this friend in Houston, Wolfy. He's a nice little gay guy. We're friends in that special "fag and his hag" kind of way. I've known Wolfy for years and years and frankly...he's a mess.

He's bipolar and tends to throw little pity parties for himself. Boo hoo, I have no job. Boo hoo, I live with my dad. Boo hoo, I have no boyfriend.

It never fails. He'll come to me asking for advice, and when I offer him suggestions on ways to change his existence I am met with a barrage of excuses! Its gotten to the point where I really dont want to hear him whine about his miserable life.

Yesterday he was on Full Eeyore Alert. Doom and gloom and angst. After receiving his latest wave of excuses, I finally snapped back at him and told him that he obviously must be happy being miserable because if he truly wanted more out of life he'd get off his lazy behind and DO something.

For years he's hinted that he wants to come up to TN and live with me and for years I have put my foot down, saying I am not in a position to take in strays who cant fend for themselves. I mean really! If you're going to lay around the house while I support you I better at least be getting boned regularly! And since I lack the equipment he likes, that's out of the question.

Frankly I think if he did move here I'd decide to become a Domme and beat some sense into his head!

UGH! Quit whining already! Apparently my "tough love" stance didnt make him happy. He's been giving me the cold shoulder all evening.

Stupid boys. Why does it seem that I know more stupid boys and less worthy men?

rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
6/29/2005 7:30 pm

You still love him, though.
Every woman needs a gay man friend.


DirtyLilSecret61 55F

6/29/2005 7:43 pm

Full Eeyore Alert - I'm laughing hysterically at that one! I love it!

I have friends like this so I totally understand.

"Lil"


bella_ 47F
4030 posts
6/29/2005 9:24 pm

Great post..has me thinking about things I usually don't think about!


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