needtoknowu1000 47F
225 posts
4/26/2006 7:42 am

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4/30/2006 10:37 am


I did something unique, for me, last night; I seduced my husband! I should do that more often and remind myself how exciting life can really be.

I have this one special pair of panties. White lace, g-string. We always joke that this particular pair comes off easy. They sure came off easy last night and I'm still feeling the glow of it.

It makes my workday so much better to sit here and tenderly bask in the glow of it, although my pleasant thoughts are interrupted by the drama that is his other woman.

I've decided she's selfish. He never said he'd marry her and I'm beginning to wonder if she knows just who she is. Some people.

Catharsis33 44M

4/26/2006 8:12 pm

Lucky man!! Funny how even after being on this site and meeting others it is always good to go "home" again.


needtoknowu1000 47F

4/27/2006 5:45 am

Home is where the heart is!

rm_gorilla062 49M
232 posts
4/27/2006 6:09 am

As long as she always stays the other woman.... it wil never long as he knows what he has at home it will never matter.
Happy for you that you had a great time!!

rm_iristron 57M

4/27/2006 7:28 am

Nice that you can still have a good time with him. Some women would just let it mess with there brain.

needtoknowu1000 47F

4/27/2006 8:33 am

Before I married him, I was of the opinion I would never get married. Guys had been, all in all, a disappointment. That was the nature of my experience through high school and college.

Then I met him and everything changed. One thing about him is that he's always straight and true. I never have to guess what he's thinking, because he tells me, even if it doesn't sound real pretty.

He's also fair. He believes I have the same right to pursue my own happiness as he does his. You'd be surprised how many men don't see things this way.

And for me, he's consistently the best lover. It's just the way we match up and the passion that goes with it. He doesn't need it as much as I'd like sometimes, but it's really never routine. So I'm lucky. I have my man and am free to experience others at my choosing.

As it turns out, I don't need anything excessive on the side. As far as she goes, she just needs not to push and everything will work out just fine for everyone. Her problem is that she is a little pushy, but it will only hurt her in the end. People should learn to respect boundaries.

If he and I ever divorce, it will be a divorce on paper only; we’ll always be together, because we both want to be. There’s a lot of security in that.

rm_bluejade2832 42M/39F

4/28/2006 4:21 pm

well first let me say If I were you I would pull her ass to the side and tell her just WHAT she was and WHERE she is in the whole picture!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But thats me though!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its good that you two are open but sometimes the husband needs to read between the lines and just realize that its hurting the one he loves even if not intensional.... Let him have his side dishes however make sure they know that you are always the main course AND desert!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

good luck

needtoknowu1000 47F

4/29/2006 7:41 am

Thank you for the encouragement Melissa, she's getting the picture; I haven't been as warm toward her lately. He knows how good he has it here and I remind him often in my little way

alamo1235 58M
995 posts
4/30/2006 8:12 am

Sounds like you two have something very special. I wish everyone could have that bond,

needtoknowu1000 47F

4/30/2006 10:37 am

It hasn't always been easy, but the conditioning breaks down over time, through trust and experience.

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