needtoknowu1000 47F
225 posts
5/1/2006 7:20 pm

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5/3/2006 7:38 am


I don't know why I'd be frustrated, but it just seems like a couple of things I had anticipated happening don't seem to be. At least not anytime soon.

People will write a couple of times, then want to go to another email thing. So then, are they truly interested?

It seems like AdultFriendFinder could work more than sufficiently to arrange a meeting.

I didn't have to work today, which is always nice. Went to do tourist things today and enjoyed myself immensely. Hope everyone had a great day

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
5/1/2006 8:07 pm

I'm sorry that things aren't working out the way you want them to. I think for everyone it is harder here than they thought to meet the right person.

luvtotalk2u2 32M
2 posts
5/1/2006 8:08 pm

I had a good day myself cuz i had the day off I don't have a lot experience here on cuz I'm failry new!! I'd love to hear more from you!

Catharsis33 44M

5/2/2006 5:24 am

It is definately hard to keep up with. I do wish AdultFriendFinder had a better chat program so you could talk easier in real time. Enjoy your day off.


needtoknowu1000 47F

5/2/2006 6:21 am

It's easier to find a guy in a bar, which can only fail if there's nobody desirable out and about. I’m thinking swinging would be good for my husband and I in the here and now and couples are way hard to find. What might I want tomorrow and will I find it? I can be a diz.

Heather_Molly 43F/44F

5/2/2006 2:25 pm

Yeah your right, it is frustrating - looking and finding are two entirely different things. We look, find a possible, talk on here or at least try too. I swear AdultFriendFinder looses emails and sometimes takes days for them to go through - we do like talking on other IM services cuz there, it is real or as close as possible while on a computer to visiting back and fourth - It is also nice in a way to get a little understanding for the person your talking with, if you just met them, they could turn out to be an axe murderer. One of the best things its totally safe and secure - don't have to worry if you don't have something to talk about or they were not as attractive as their picture made them look or any one of the hundred reasons we all just don't hop into bed tonight. Then you don't have to worry about making a mad dash for the exit door - It can be difficult at the same time too, cuz you can not see facial expressions. But conversation and the anticipation it brings help when you finally do meet that person or couple you have been talking too. Especially if they want to visit for at least a couple of times before you meet and if they are willing to go that far then why not meet for dinner or a glass of wine, and then at dinner and over wine the really good and interesting conversation just happens, cuz you have built a small foundation of trust.

Hugs Heather and Molly

needtoknowu1000 47F

5/2/2006 5:33 pm

You do have a point. When I used to Im and cam, I had lots of hackers, but I should learn to trust again. At least to a point. communicating through AdultFriendFinder just seems safe.

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