WHAT I HATE MOST,...........  

needluvin4me38 49F
14 posts
1/6/2006 9:40 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

WHAT I HATE MOST,...........

What I hate most is when you are interested in a guy and you ask for a photo and he gives you one,
then he asks you for one of you, then totally ignores you and blocks you from all mail. Just tell the truth, then no one gets hurt, upset, or sad. NOT all depends on what a person looks like, it is what is inside that person that matters the most.

rm_rockhard487 49M
1 post
1/9/2006 1:00 pm

i know what you mean. it would bee nice that they would say something to you, like thanks or something. thats just rude.

needluvin4me38 49F

1/9/2006 8:49 pm

I have decided that if I ever bump into this person and I do recognize him,...I will say something to him even if I am at work, he
has got to know how it feels. It makes me not want to give anyone my
picture in fear that they will look at me and not talk to me again. I am not ugly, but if you already have a low-self-esteem and someone does this to you,..wouldln't it make you feel worse??

nowshootnblanks 53M
1 post
1/11/2006 11:07 pm

I know what you are talking about. I get messages from some people and after i respond to them they never seem to follow up and they block you from contacting them. It realy sucks when the do this. Some people are here to play games and that is all they do.

tdkcdr2 57M
19 posts
1/13/2006 11:30 am

I know how you feel. I've been pretty laid back on this site and not really pursued women relentlessly...just tried to be friendly. A couple of weeks ago I started chatting with a lady in a chat room. She came on to ME pretty strong and asked for a photo. She said she wouldn't send me one until she got one from me. I understand her point of view. Someone has to be the first to make the leap of trust and it probably ought to be the guy. I sent her one and I never heard from her again. I see her posting in one of the groups and I have to fight the urge to post a mean one directed at her...but what good would that do. None. So I just ignore her now. What else is there?

needluvin4me38 49F

1/13/2006 8:31 pm

I am tired of people on this site,...makes me not want to care about anyone anymore. I try and get dumped on over and over. It gets frustrating....makes me want to wack someone upside the head, but that won't help me,...it would only make me more mad. Well,.thanks for your comment.

tdkcdr2 57M
19 posts
1/14/2006 9:27 am

If it WOULD help I offer you my head. One whack to a customer so make it good.

But you hit the point dead center in your post...what matters most is what's on the inside. And the problem is that what's really on the inside is the most difficult to see or discover in cyberland. What's on the inside is what's the easiest to hide here. Keep tryin'. Who knows what awaits around the next corner. It could be an ugly little troll. But it could also be just what you're looking for. You just never know until you get around that corner.

needluvin4me38 49F

1/15/2006 7:43 pm

ha ha!! Which head are you offering me to whack on?? I don't want to hurt you, but thanks for the offer. I hope that life will treat you fair and will make you happy in whatever you decide to do in life. I don't think being on this site is what I really want to do, I want to find friends and that is hard to do here, once you are friends,...then you can be lovers, it is as simple as that. I hope that all your dreams come true. I like reading your comments, makes me know that others feel the same way that I do.

playtime44uandi 52M
6545 posts
1/17/2006 7:12 pm

I know how you feel needlovin, Ive had some wonderful things turn ugly on here. Its no fun when it ends, either early or late.
But I can say from experience its probably not a good thing to take up problems with someone in groups. As long as you dont name names this is a good place to vent a bit.

~We'll Leave The Light On~

rm_turboman43 54M

1/28/2006 6:24 am


I totaly agree with you. I dont care how you look just how much fun we have together. So send me a photo and I will email you a note. Send me whatever pose you wish to send all I ask is that you meet with me sometime.
I have only a few requirements when meeting someone. You give me a chance to get to know you and then if you like we can meet again for some real good times. I am looking for teasing and pleasuring good times.
If you wish to know more drop me a note and I will tell you more. I have alot of desires, needs and wants to share with you and hope you have what it takes to go about enjoying them..........Shaggy

rm_df58ut 58M

3/1/2006 11:29 pm

Communication is the most important part of anything. If you cannot communicate, you cannot function properly. I think this person has more problems than you would want to know about. Good Riddance to bad garbage. I think it is low when someone does that.
Give me a chance, I wouldn't do that - ever !! If a person is so hung up on looks, they should just sit in front of the mirror all the time!!

rm_1967retlaw 49M

4/7/2006 1:12 pm

People are funny... I ALWAYS respond, even if it is to say no thank you. But other people are not as polite. I was chatting on and off with one person for about three weeks. Then without explination, she never wrote back. I see that she is online once in a while... Maybe I should write her and ask WTF...

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