My Wife is Bi  

need2havfun76 40M
60 posts
12/2/2005 9:56 pm

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My Wife is Bi

My Wife says she is Bi. I really, like the thought of that.

I know her history and yes she once had a fairly possessive girlfriend, that she broke up with, but hasn't given me much proof that she still has the same inclinations she once had.

We currently don't have any friends that we would consider sharing.

What should I do? Tell her to find us a girlfriend or suggest to her that I might want to find someone?

Maybe I should just drop the subject with her and keep it a fantasy to avoid major arguments.

Either way, I'm still interested in finding a discreet relationship to relieve the frustration I find at home.

rm_icenbigirl 37M/37F
16 posts
12/2/2005 10:19 pm

i would tell her about ur thoughts and see if she thinks that would be a good idea

need2havfun76 40M

12/4/2005 11:48 pm

Thanks for commenting icenbigirl.
I know she's interested, so far as to be at least curious. I most likely will tell her my thoughts, eventually. My problem is that I hesitate. I usually try to trust my instincts, but I don't know why this time I hesitate.

(here's where I over-analyze)

If I just tell her my thoughts, I am essentially leaving the decision in her hands. She hates making decisions. Even decisions about our sex life. She'll accept my thoughts and appreciate the honesty, but she is mostley a hermit that is opposed to change.

But I am going to follow your advice icenbigirl, and at the same time try to avoid her brushing the subject under the perverbial carpet, or starting an argument that will close the subject for eternity. (hehe, like I said, to stop that)

TexasMar 43F

12/12/2005 4:31 pm

Maybe you should slowly bring up the subject by dropping hints here and there that you are asking questions about the other girl.

Ask her about some fantasies that she might want to try. Tell her your fantasies. Tell her you would like to have a threesome someday. But bring them up slowwwwly. Maybe a few every few weeks. Dont do it when she is cranky, do it when she is horny maybe.

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