ncfantasyseeker 46F
74 posts
7/9/2006 9:57 am

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8/14/2006 7:23 am


As was pointed out to me, I have blogged about my distaste for people who cannot and do not live an honest life... (i.e. I love her but need to fuck, therefore...I lie to her)

I have posted here how I am not interested in married/committed men...

HOWEVER, I never went back to my profile and added that information. While normally I simply send a "no discrete relationships" quick response, my "quick reply" seems to be frozen this week. Therefore, I sent a direct non insulting but opinionated reply to a recent invite. I then declined his invitation (or tried to) and it processed faster than my clicker hit decline....LOL

His response was justified in saying something along the lines of "HUNH????"

SO, while I expect any man who courts me to READ my profile and maybe... Just maybe read my blog to see if I'm crazy as a loon or bitter or Goddess Forbid a Republican(ick) (after all I take these basic steps in considering my response)it may perhaps have been a bit hasty in not putting big purple letters saying... NO DISHONESTY TOLERATED on my profile as well.

This has since been corrected.

meerkittykat 42F

7/9/2006 10:50 am

Ya know...you can post stuff in your profile and make it as straightforward and blunt as can possibly be...and you're still gonna get dingbats contacting you. I've learned that over time.

If you get a chance between emails......come visit us at [post 419109] and check it out.....hope to see you there.


rm_babyboomer26 66M
898 posts
7/9/2006 9:00 pm

I read your profile and it puzzled me. You want only a nameless, faceless fantasy mate, a cyber relationship; someone you will never meet. So why does age, marital status or, for that matter, gender matter to you?

ncfantasyseeker 46F
22 posts
7/9/2006 10:14 pm

LOL, I stated that I wished to START with a mental seduction....If a man or woman can't turn my mind on...what's the point of meeting? As for Age, it doesn't if I plan to STOP at the fantasy... But I am uncomfortable with very young men as I see only my son...As for gender...I'm open and say so...as for marital status..

Having been on the receiving end of a partner who found sexual/personal satisfaction online...and only online... the betrayal was almost worse than if he boffed the girl down the street. At least that would be physical and somewhat apart.. Instead, he put ME on the outside of THEIR relationship. I would NEVER do that to anyone...nor allow myself to even associate with someone who thinks that dishonesty is OK.

Basically, I practice what I preach... I don't play with married men. Let them handle their business...and I'm all theirs.. but while they are perpetrating what I consider a cruel act against someone the once loved (or still love) than I am off limits.

rm_WildBill688 52M

8/11/2006 1:47 am

Very cool, I hate dishonesty and liars with a passion.

I don't think you're a Republican but you sure as hell are located in one. I think that is a big part of your troubles.

BTW you now have a link in my blog.

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