Sexual Thoughts and Memories  

ThumbChickStool 33F
541 posts
2/14/2006 11:48 pm

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3/10/2006 11:13 pm

Sexual Thoughts and Memories

I just saw a blog asking how long it's been since you last had sex. I'm seeing answers like "two days ago. that's too long." or "too long". WTF??? I can honestly say the last time hubby and I had sex was about a month ago. First time we had sex in 2006 was almost two weeks into the year. And before that? A week before Christmas.

Back in college (three years ago and some change), I started keeping track on a calender every time we had sex because we would actually fight about it. He was saying that we had sex more often than we really did, and he said that I was exaggerating how long it was in between sex sessions. Turned out, I wasn't the one lying.

He can only blame the low testosterone so much. It's not so low that it should affect his drive as much as it does. He's only 25, so it's definately not age. Opportunities, maybe. But I doubt the two kids keep him from wanting it. I'm the one doing most of the parenting, and it doesn't bother my drive at all. He is slightly overweight, as am I, but that still shouldn't affect him to the point that we're going on once a month, maybe twice.

And now you know why we're on here. It was his idea so I can find playmates that can keep me happy until he wants to do his job. And maybe find a playmate for the both of us. But there is one hitch... I'M INORDINATELY SHY!!!

I'm shy. Which means I will have a hard time getting the guts up to actually go out and meet someone, much less having sex with them. So, back to where I started from. Wanting sex and not getting it. :: big sigh :: One of these days...

DTduzDallas 50F

2/17/2006 9:10 am


psssssssst...I'm home

rm_Billy21399 37M

2/17/2006 7:03 pm

Hey hun, when you get back in town and are not shy. Look me up, i would love the chance to be with you. I miss you.

elysianpleasure 47M

2/19/2006 4:34 pm

You are not alone... and in better shape than many. At least you are supporting each other being here in a way. Hang in there...


MiamiDoctor15 43M
3 posts
2/19/2006 6:34 pm

Well, it sounds like we're in a similar boat! Only I've been with my wife for 10 years, married for 5! I started keeping track once, then I just stopped... It's sad isn't it? And it's not like I haven't confronted her about it...

Hope that maybe we can help each other out.

rm_DC932 57M

3/1/2006 12:57 am

The flipside of the coin is by inviting in a third or other couple you are opening a Pandora's box. Seems to me that maybe some counseling first to see why things are off would be in order.

You can always go this route in the future but once that box is opened life becomes complicated quickly.

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