SINGLE PARENTS OF BIRACIAL CHILDREN  

nathanwickham 29F
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9/9/2006 4:06 pm

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9/9/2006 4:06 pm

SINGLE PARENTS OF BIRACIAL CHILDREN

IF YOU WERE A SINGLE MOM/DAD OF AS BIRACIAL CHILD
HOW WOULD YOU FEEL?
ASHAMED AND UNWANTED(CAUSE YOUR CHILD LOOKS A LITTLE DIFFERENT )
WANTED AND LOVED(NO MATTER WHAT A THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR EVERYONE)
EMBARASSED AND ALONE
HAPPY AND FREE


SingleWarrior 52M

9/9/2006 6:28 pm

I am half Native American Indian. My dad died when I was two, so my mom was on her own with me, a half breed.

Yet she got re-married eventually, because someone was out ther for her

My half sister has a half black/half Afro American child. They live in Alaska. Father lives in Texas. So she's on her own, but dates regularly.

Myself, skin color doesn't mean a damn thing

Welcome to the blogs, by the way


DriptPristFewer 48M

9/9/2006 7:34 pm

Don't sweat the small stuff in life. If someone is going to judge you by your skin color then why would you want to waste your time with them. I don't mean to say you should be rude to them, you just should spend what bit of life you have on more productive endeavors. To put a little context on this I am a white guy that was raised in a white household. My parents divorced & my mom remarried to a white guy that was a total asshole. I don't waste my time on him & it has been approx 20 years. Call me bitter if you want but I don't have any reason to waste time on someone who proved to me many times over he was not willing to treat me with commonn decency & respect. I am much happier now that I don't have any dealings with him.


58wolf 58M

10/16/2006 1:16 pm

I'm a mix of Native and Celtic... Yeah it depends what angle you look at me from whether sem like I'm a light native or celtic mutt. hen I was 16, one of my gfs was blacker than a starless night sky, and another was chinese. If I had not ben taught to be sexually responsible as a young teen, even before I was sexualy active, I could have a Native-Celt-black/ chinese child. What in the small city I live in might be scandalous would probably be less here. As a seaport, there were lots of mixed race babies born, it was more of a stir over religion than race.
I have close friends who are also native-white, chinese-white, white-white, and black-chinese. If your son is healthy and knows he's loved, be happy for that, since like DaxMan said, color has nothing to do with good parents. Love your child, find someone who can love you for you and they will know they are getting a package deal when they date you or get serious.
It's obvious you don't judge a book by the cover, since you cared for a man of another race, who fathered your beautiful son... You didn't judge by race enough to bear this child. You're not color blind, so don't make assumptions that others of us are racist.
On another of this company's sites, a group I belong to has among one of their more popular female members, a young chinese woman, and from what she told me, she gets dozens of winks, emails or whatever in her inbox every day! The vast majority of the guys on that site are white in appearance. I have been approached or viewed/ Hotlisted by as many women of color as white ones, and know what... it doesn't matter what shade the skin is, it's the person inside it that makes the difference. I hope you find someone worthy of loving you and your son. Take care, and smile. PJ


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