Trust....I dont think i can anymore  

nastycuervo69 41M
24 posts
8/27/2006 1:15 pm

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8/28/2006 8:23 pm

Trust....I dont think i can anymore

Wow... nothing like finding out from a friend what reasons my ex gave for leaving me, which werent the reasons she gave me. Even though i had in my mind an idea that maybe that was why. Why when I finally feel like she was there for me when i needed her the most, did she turn around and use that moment of weakness against me as a reason to leave. I hate to say it but I dont know if i can ever trust again. I put all my trust into that relationship and not I've gotten burned so bad I dont think i want to even try to trust someone else again

woofff 41F

8/27/2006 1:52 pm

Please don't think that sound very hurt...a bit puzzled... somewhat shaken/shocked...perhaps now is not the best time to make such a life altering statement like you may not trust another woman's motives again... I know for myself AdultFriendFinder been hurt by more than one guy online,
but I also met someone special right here...

Good luck,you...


silverhawk762 51M/47F

8/27/2006 2:02 pm

The ones we love the most have the largest capacity for causing us pain - keep that in mind while you're picking up the pieces. Trust takes time - there are honest people out there, but it may be a while before you see that. Just don't give up on yourself, and don't allow this to tear you completely down.

JustaSeeker 105F

8/27/2006 2:18 pm

I find it very hard to trust, too, but everybody isn't bad. Give it time...

sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
8/27/2006 5:10 pm

I always trust people until they betray my trust. Once they have betrayed my trust, they will never get it back. Everything will be occay in time. Just guard your heart more than ever now!

nastycuervo69 41M

8/27/2006 6:52 pm

Thank you all for your responses, I realize that this is still a fresh wound, and in time i may overcome it. Trust however will not be given again until it has been earned. I really hope the saying is true, whatever doesnt kill us, only makes us stronger cause right now i feel like the weakest person in the world.

florallei 99F

8/28/2006 7:49 am

Nasty, she had to make you look bad in order to appease her guilt. This is very common for guilty partners who initiate seperations. My own case I was made into a monster I didn't recognize.
My ex eventually confessed it was easier to hate me so he could move forward. It is a sign of their immaturity and accepting any accountability. In time they do realize it.
You will trust again for how can you not? There are a lot of precious and valuable pearls and gems still in this world.

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