Giving Head  

nakednightswimme 40F
121 posts
8/11/2005 6:03 am

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Giving Head

This is a little departure from what I normally write on this blog but I thought maybe all of you could help me out. I love giving oral to men and women, and up until my current mate I had never had any complaints although I'm not able to deep throat and do have a smaller mouth. But he is particularly thick and pretty long. I overcame my gag reflex along time ago but do any of you have any suggestions that might help me satisfy him better. I have the soul to serve, nothing makes me happier than giving pleasure to my partner but I feel second rate... I've never been in this position before and really could use some advise if anyone has any special ideas please please post them. So guys tell me what makes a great bj for you and girls please share any special tricks you use. Thanks.

vengeur 41M
836 posts
8/11/2005 7:15 am

A great blowjob for me is not just getting deepthroated. I am particularly thick and long myself, so some women cannot deepthroat me even when they try. Women who lick along my cockshaft and balls are ones that I appreciate so much. To me, a good blowjob is one that is done with a lot of variations on the technique - not just a lot of repetitive motion.

i_fuck_dirty 33F

8/11/2005 7:53 am

i have yet to be able to overcome my gag reflex, so i use my tongue alot. my favorite thing to do is lick from behind the balls all the way to the tip and back. when its completely in my mouth, i compensate what gets left out with my hands. also, i am ususally neat when it comes to sex (for lack of better word), but if your partner doesnt mind a little mess, lots of saliva makes it easier on the mouth and hands and way sluttier and fun.

p.s. dont forget what does fit in your mouth. BALLS!

2injaxseeking1 39M/38F

8/11/2005 3:48 pm

I've been in your situation and I handled it much like i_f***_dirty. I almost always had one hand around the base because I simply couldn't fit it all my mouth. You might want to add some lube to that hand (just the base, not where your lips are) to enhance the experience for him. It will feel more like your mouth.

Another solution - if he's large enough that you're worred about him running into your teeth when he starts moving faster... try making a C shape with your index finger and thumb and placing it outside of your mouth but right on top of your teeth. If you position it just right (and keep your fingers slick with saliva) he can then thrust away at will without fear of running into anything.

nakednightswimme 40F

8/12/2005 6:28 pm

Thanks vengeur your idea of a great blow job makes me feel a better about my ablities. I_f**k_dirty and 2 injax I'm gonna try out some of your advise especially the C. I'd never heard that before and it might help when he gets really into it. Everybody out there who is being shy, please if your already looking - take a minute and write down what you enjoy doing or recieving. Nite, hope all of you have a wonderful weekend. Just a hint here but if you are into the deep throat thing I still want to hear from you, maybe you could suggest a favorite position, lube, or tell me about the best one you ever had/gave.

rm_happymike42 58M

8/14/2005 11:20 pm

I like her to use her hand and mouth as one and mover her body to if I get to rub her clit and make her cum when i'm in her mouth wow that makes my day for sure oh yeah a women who puts on a good show too thats a big turn on to

BbyGrl81 37F

8/15/2005 12:17 pm

one of my fav lubes is called hot hotters oil(i get it at adam & eve on 103rd sreet $12.99) I like using it cuz you can use it while giving oral and it taste pretty good (sex on the beach is the best) and unlike alot of other oils the get warm it dont burn lol and best of all it is not STICKY.. and it feels good on the clit and yes the nipples when someone blows on it ... I have a freind that I can not deep throat much get it down once ot twice but that is it and the oil and using your hands and work the tongue makes up for it good luck

Mikey_B1972 44M

8/20/2005 6:03 pm

As i have stated in some of my blogs, i love oral sex, both giving to her and receiving from her. Thinking back, the strongest thought is this chick that pushed me back in my chair, pulled it out and the way her hands were, it was like she was massaging and teasing at the same time. I can still see her eyes staring at me as my cock is in her mouth and her right hand. Her left hand was wrapped around the side and was massaging my balls. WOW!!! the visual effect alone was worth blasting over...

nakednightswimme 40F

8/21/2005 10:08 am

Thanks for the advise and baby I'll have to check out that lube. As the guys comment I'm starting to think maybe I just need to relax and enjoy it again or maybe he's just being difficult and wanting something physically impossible, I recently was lucky enough to witness a special kind of contest and I must say that no one there could really go any farther down than I can when I really work at it. So thanks I really really apreciate all your comments and advise.

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