totally frustrated with this sites system  

mywildsyde1 58F
63 posts
4/25/2005 7:27 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

totally frustrated with this sites system many times do you need to accept someone into your network and how many times do you need to read your emails and how many times do you have to try and reply to them and get timed out..and how many times do they have to show up as new many times do you have to contact someone only to get the standard we will notify so and so of this problem...

do we pay to be a member of this site to have to go thru that every single day..i have notification in my email for the same guy that i responded to early this is still showing as new email and its 730 at nite now..and i have accepted this other guy into my network at least 20 times i the only one ready to pull my flipping hair out...

this is sooo totally not fair to us people who pay the money for membership...

ok im better now...NOT

(Neil M)

4/25/2005 8:15 pm

I agree hon. Hell, I've got customer support on speed dial.. lol It seems as though about the time they have the site working flawlessly, they go and screw it up. Go figure.. I am beginning to think that we pay to train people how to messup sites, rather than for a commercial-quality service. Go Figure!

boredhousewife30 43F

4/25/2005 8:41 pm

here too, accepted 2 invites and one still sits there. One of the invites had albums to view and when I go to view them I either get a message saying no albums to view or no permission to view. I have been having issues all night on this site..
I feel your pain mywildsyde

lustmirror 63M
2897 posts
4/25/2005 9:07 pm

You are definitely not alone. There are a ton of problems w/ the site. Have you tried running your handle through G oogle yet?

Artneo77 39M
1 post
4/25/2005 9:11 pm

I completely agree with you guys all...same shit here!

TakesTeatsStood 50M
505 posts
4/25/2005 9:15 pm

This is an advantage to being a male here, I don't get any mail or network invites so I don't have to worry about it screwing up

gxman69 57
4 posts
4/25/2005 9:23 pm

i have tried to put people on my network and there is never any response. I will try to put you on my net,

redswallow777 48M
6810 posts
4/25/2005 9:25 pm

Only one thing worse than putting up with that as a paying member....putting up with it as a standard member.

A recently downgraded member....redswallow.

rm_WILD3372 44M
1 post
4/25/2005 9:40 pm

This sight sucks, Ive spent a ton of money but met no one, not even one message! I do get tons of responces on other sites like lava though!

Ready2Learn54 56M/63F

4/25/2005 9:48 pm

Glad to hear that paying members have the same problems as we do as standard members. Seems like every day we experience a new glitch with our account. We exchange more e-mails with Customer Service than with people we'd like to meet."Our Network" is our worst problem--we wanted to accept an invite, and AdultFriendFinder declined it. I've been trying for 2 days now to decline an invitation, and the invite won't go away.I was finally able to get our accepted friend into our network, but when I went to view him, ALL our friends disappeared from view. AdultFriendFinder said that we had no friends at this time. I came back on the site later, and all our friends were back on our page. I think this site is "possessed" or something. It's very, very frustrating!!!!

yellowsubmarin13 32M

4/25/2005 10:25 pm

I sadly have to agree, as a paying member this is bogus. People I have invited appear in my friends one second and then dissapear the next, now I see um' now I don't. The Record Video Introduction are has not worked in 30 days. As far as it goes is "Connecting to Server", yet I can broadcast my cam and I can watch others?!?!?!? I have to accept invites 7,000 times over, invites never send with mail, AdultFriendFinder doesnt respond to my questions, and worst of all, I can't post new discussions in any of my groups, and every time AdultFriendFinder does send something i get 60 god damn copies!!! WHAT...THE FUCK!

scubasnack2005 58M/58F

4/25/2005 11:18 pm

PostingNick: He can find a silver lining in ANY cloud. (And I agree with him!).

mac51011 40M
1 post
4/25/2005 11:28 pm

shit I cant get anyone in my network this sucks, rather just be standard, same shit anyway...

Crimson959 57F

4/26/2005 12:07 am

It's a good thing that I'm not a paying member because I'd be quite peed off for this kind of's been problems after problems....the lagging really bugs me.

fosters1949 67M
4 posts
4/26/2005 7:24 pm

I have to agree!

rm_byteman65 51M

5/2/2005 2:08 pm

Only had 1 problem with network, but I get 4 or 5 cupid reports all the same a few minutes apart. I I was having to repost my profile every few days, and that takes me out of sending email or being viewed while the approve it. I am currently listed on the couples search page but am a single on profile. Though I do meet a lot of people here and i better after all the money i have spent.
Also what's the deal with Gold members having to pay to talk to standard members? I can email them but they can't reply? that's a crock...

rainbow1943 73F

5/22/2006 10:20 am

My problem is that AdultFriendFinder changes procedures here and doesn't inform you. I now have a instant message box that appears that asks you to connect to Instant rarely works. And that spinning blue circle drives me crazy!!! And what the hay is that 3/5 listed below everyone's live webcam. Viewing already recorded webcams never works correctly. It starts, stops, starts, stops, and it's never AdultFriendFinder's problem. They need a site where you can go in and view the changes/updates they have made here and how to use them. Doesn't seem like too much to ask if they want to keep their subscribers. I agree with byteman65 about having to pay to connect with standard members....ridiculous!!

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