~todays dilemma~  

mysticknight6935 50M
45 posts
4/27/2006 12:51 am

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4/27/2006 9:35 pm

~todays dilemma~

So, this morning i was in a chat room and it was going along very nicely...then this guy pops in (as many guys with no manners here do) broadcasting his webcam and the very first thing he said in the room was "who wants to watch me wank" or something rude like that....
My response was "this is the wrong room for that" and that's all i said...after all, I had heard the "rules" of the room before and knew that it was not a "play room" so to speak as many others on AdultFriendFinder are.
Well, hell, you woulda thought that I said "I HAVE A BOMB" because this one girl (and I call her a girl because of her endless need to dwell on the topic for over an hour) started going off on it being a sex room and this and that and on and on and on...well, you get the idea. SO i eventually shot her with my iggy gun and that was it....
My question is this...Are there just certain rooms where that type of activity should not be allowed and those people diverted to one of the rooms where that sort of behavior is accepted, or should we just mind our own business, put them on ignore and get on with our own conversations? I know this is AdultFriendFinder and people come here for, well..mainly sex...but I come here for FRIENDSHIPS first...if sex develops GREAT, but if a friendship is built..EVEN BETTER!
Whats your response to those that broadcast webcams or just pop into a room and say "who wants to get lucky, etc. etc. etc"

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
4/27/2006 1:52 am

Now you know why I don't go into the basement...too many times, I tried to be the bouncer/enforcer...to no avail.

It clearly states that the basement is not for quick kinky sex and that those who look for that should go to another room...that being said, how can you expect people to obey the 'rules' when:

-the other rooms allow and encourage such behavior, so why should the basement be any different?

-a lot of people don't ever read the chatroom descriptions...they usually see a picture of someone that catches their eye and click to where they are online at....

All in all, you are fighting a losing battle, for no matter what you do, someone will get pissed off at you. Better to put a silencer on that iggy gun, do the dirty work, and be done with it...

NG61...slipping back into the shadows again...

danigirl1000 56F

4/27/2006 6:13 am

Hi mystick ...again, lol. I will get the grass cut today, , but first I thought I'd answer you !!!
I mostly only go into the same room all the time ( you know the one ) ...and yes, I really HATE it when these ignorant people come in with such stupid remarks. I have tried to ignore them too, but they don't get the message.....just ask again..and again. So, like you, I either make some sarcastic remark back at them, or, better still....go for the iggy button !!!

It seems some people just go into any room, looking for a quick ****, doesn't matter to them who with.
Lets face it, thats what this site is about mainly

But for me it's a chance to catch up with some friends for a chat

So, just keep the iggy gun fully loaded at all times.

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