Time to settle this once and for all!!!!!  

mysticdreamangel 60F
1119 posts
7/9/2006 1:50 pm

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9/17/2006 5:53 pm

Time to settle this once and for all!!!!!

I have been getting a lot of flack for my description of I'm looking for in a man. I thought that it was written in a very humourous tone, but many of you are taking it to heart. If you look at my profile I have tried to clarify what I wrote, but if you need a further breakdown...here it is:

"Describe what I'm looking for in a person...reading what many have written to this question they are describing how they want a person to look. I can do that too..."

Read this again prior to reading on. I am definately poking fun at those people that feel that a description of there ideal person is what they look like on the outside and do not mention any qualities they are looking for on the inside...

"What my ideal man would LOOK like:
5'10 or taller, thin to muscular, long hair...I don't mean to the collar...I mean long hair. Hmmm, someone that has a slight bad boy look, but is a true gentleman, a few tatoos are nice, an earring or two. Likes to wear jeans, white poet shirts, black boots. You know the kind of guy you would see on the cover of a romance novel."

Notice I put "LOOK" in capital letters. Also the fact I say he would look like what you see on the cover of a romance novel should have been a good clue I was joking!

"Okay now what I'm looking for IN a man:
Sincerity, loyalty, honesty, long-term-relationship. Okay now that 99.9% of you have run away...I wish you the best in your search!"

This is the part you should have read and taken seriously, but many of you are just too hung up on the previous to even get this far.

"P.S. Just so you know, my description of what I would like a man to look like is not a fantasy...I have been fortunate to have had serious relationships with two men that looked like that, however they did not have the qualities of what I'm looking for IN a man. So be careful what you look for in a person!"

Hey, did you notice I said that the two men I dated that looked like my description did not have the qualities of what I'm looking for IN a man?

"Do I believe there is a man out there that LOOKS like what I want and has the qualities I'm looking for IN a man...yes, but their all too young and that doesn't work either...lol!"

Okay now the above should have been the major clue letting you know that at 50 I have more on the ball then to truly believe my romance novel man is out there. As I said, I'm sure there is a man out there like that but I'm sure he is anywhere from 20 to 30. I'm not interested in babysitting!

So guys,those of you that have been commenting on my description, please, if your going to read a womans profile...read it...spend less time looking at the pictures...lighten up! Perhaps, it was one of your profiles that I read that made me decide to write what I did in mine. Go back and look. Did you describe your ideal person with only physical attributes? If so, it probably was your profile I read!

biginya71m 45M  
78 posts
7/9/2006 8:16 pm

i saw you on cam and boy oh boy you are smokin hott,what a woman..

mysticdreamangel replies on 7/9/2006 9:27 pm:
Thank you! Glad you enjoyed...


angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
7/9/2006 9:43 pm

Great post here! I'll have to go read your profile now.

mysticdreamangel replies on 7/10/2006 5:16 am:
From one Angel to another I say thank you! Hope you have a beautiful day!


curvymeli 39F

7/13/2006 11:05 pm

lol, I bet if you could say all that in five words or less the men would get it...unfortunately most of them don't actually read that far.

So what are we women going to do that actually SAY something in our profile!?!

mysticdreamangel replies on 7/14/2006 4:50 am:
Good question! If you come up with an answer let me know.

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