can u fuck any girl without care with their looks????  

JeersPilarSaver 35F
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8/14/2006 7:26 pm

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can u fuck any girl without care with their looks???? 25 yrs old now. and in some way, one thing that goes in my mind is 'does look/appearance really matters' u know what i mean??? i mean, we, girls, always try hard to look beautiful, fresh, and take care of ourselves very it worth it (in the term of meeting the opposite sex)??? confused?? ok lemme start from the beginning then.

i have this friend of mine, and in one opportunity, i just saw him try to avoid a woman that keep try to contact him. this man was handsome, cute, and attractive. but then, i saw the girl that keep contact him...and SWEAR To sooooooo fucking shocked. ok, im not trying to underestimate anyone, and im not consider that myself is beautiful but gosh, that girl is really not take care of herself and dress way too sexy (i dont know how to say this in more polite way). ok, its everyone's right whether she wanna take care of herself or not, but again like i say is looks/appearance really matter for men??? i mean if not, we dont have to try hard so we will look good in men's eyes, right?? honestly, i love to take care of myself, to look nice, smell nice for my own self, not for men but somehow, seeing that really make me wondering. so this subject already in my mind.

i ask my friend, is that girl attractive?? well not really, she didnt really turn me on, but in some time men just have to 'do' it. that was his answer. is that right?? man just have to do it in some time, with any girls that he just happen to meet, no matter how ugly (sorry!) or how sleezy (sorry again!) that girl is?? ok, i stressed again, im not trying to offense anyone, im also a woman, but this subject really open my eyes and make me think.

as for girl, or at least for me, i dont think i can just slept with a man thats not attractive at all. its depend on the chemistry, right?? well so far, i think its also the same for men. but it dont. still a bit shocked now.
i said to my friend, ur so handsome, i mean at least u can find someone better, someone nicer, although its only for one nite stand.

so yeah, anyone can help me with this?? i mean is it normal for men?? i know men can just fuck n leave, girls also can do that but is it ok with any kind of girl?? without even care with their looks or appearance??

hmmm really really curious about this. well, at least my mind still a bit relieve after i spill it here.

back to work now......

10 posts
8/14/2006 8:02 pm

Not any girl, but I think it's a function of the experience/confidence of the man, as well as how long it's been and how much alcohol consumed!

zhongguo_airen 59M
2 posts
8/14/2006 9:26 pm

This is a very good question, Mystic 1888, and goes straight to the heart of the whole "man-woman" physical desire thing which has lately emerged on the human behavioral scene after several long millenium of wholesale chastity and sexual indifference.

For me, the phenomenon of sexual desire really is a bit of a mystery and not simply a matter of "Girl A is pretty ergo I desire her" or "Girl B is not pretty ergo I don't desire her."

"Pretty" in my view is largely a function of the mind or the brain, while "sexy" is more a function of the instincts and heart and the loins. When I want to be with a woman, it is because the irrational animal in me wants to "take" the irrational animal in her. Whether she is objectively "pretty" or not is neither good nor bad to me - just irrelevant to the central issue at hand.

To paraphrase Jeff Goldblum, "sex will . . . find a way."

hehehehe >>!

Does that make any sense?

JeersPilarSaver 35F

8/15/2006 5:38 am

dear Pleasureunit101
hmm how much alcohol consumed is make sense. but how if ure not drunk?

dear zhongguo_airen
ok, so when u said the 'animal' in u wanna take the irrational 'animal' in her, we can consider that as a chemistry right?? i agree with that, as long as the chemistry right, it wont be a problem. but can it happen if u dont have that chemistry and just fuck her, just to, for instance, add the list of how many girl u have been fucked???
well well...Jeff Goldblum paraprase seem to answer my will find a way??? hmmm....almost make sense now!

maskagain 41M/39F
18 posts
8/15/2006 12:21 pm

hi mystic...
it's nice to talk about sex here like this serious...haha...

think ur question is really interesting...i dunno much of the answer ...but for general ppl's POV--- guys always want sex... it jus depends on how he can handle his 'desire',,if he can't hold it..."he might simply do it wif anyone"...otherwise they will hold it until they found someone tat suits their preference..

BUT,,wut is a man's desire?? where is it come from...??
i dunno oso...but got some discussion wif gf about this recently..n found some interesting answer tho...maybe u can jus take it as one laugh too...

Guy's penis is hang externally ...and normally guy know about the feeling of orgasm(tru masturbation) much younger than girl..n bcos of this ;.. of cos there're many other reasons like hormone or less restriction morally(at least ppl mite think being a cheap guy has less harm than being a cheap girl); ,,,
they always search for the orgasm feeling again(maybe becos their orgasm is not as intense as girl's ability of multiple Orgasm,,they always want to feel it again..ha!),,,of cos the feeling is such a nice experience to release many many tension on the a very good traditoinal massage...especially when massager scrub the painful part of our body...we will feel released n felt Asleep so eventually to Recharge ourself...think this is how guys experience their amazing orgasm...

so they want it always ...and its easier for guy maybe becos what all in their mind is jus how to feel the orgasm(released like what massage can do) again,,be it masturbation,or wif a prostitue,or one night stand,,or his fren..,,or gal look for serious relationship,,or wife,;,ugly girl(from guy POV)might feel being used if he jus want a masturbation...or gal look for serious relationship might feel being used if he jus want a one night stand..blah ,,blah ,blah.....

jus own opinion onli...

SuperAdventurous 37M
258 posts
8/15/2006 12:51 pm

It is a pretty good question. The only way I can answer that is that I wouldn't be with someone if there wasn't some form of attraction.

So to a certain degree, to everyone depending on their standards (and I use that word lightly) looks do play a big role...

I couldn't imagine being with someone that I didn't find personally attractive. Then again, we all have deifferent views on what we would classify as attractive.

JeersPilarSaver 35F

8/16/2006 6:16 am

dear maskagain
hmmm thats also make sense, indeed its was easier to men then. so its just pure totally only sex, right?? and men can just do it with any girl?? wowwww...

dear SuperAdventurous
yeah same with me, i cant be with someone if there's no chemistry at all (and in certain level, looks is a big role for me). well reading ure answer, made me kinda glad a bit cuz at least not all people act the same way right??

rm_2spunkE 41M
52 posts
8/16/2006 10:22 am

hey mystic,me wanna do it almost every other hour laa.had many fuck friends,some single,some married,some young,some old,some fat,some round and curved,some thin,some had pretty face,some had no face-BUT ALLLLLLLLLL WERE HORNY FOR ME.NOT JUST HORNY.horny for me.and thats who i wanna fuck and have a good time.hope my answer tells you something.happy fucking.

maskagain 41M/39F
18 posts
8/16/2006 1:03 pm

physically men can do it with anyone,,,ohh,,or anything(as long they cum)...hahaha!!
but hey...ask for more is human nature ,,so when physically is not fulfilling enuf...they look for extra reason for looks..body shape..or if this gal can communicate with me or not,,or does she likes to,,and so on...

we can still survived by jus eating Rice everyday without any other dishes,
but we prefer potato,,pizza,,sushi,,chicken,,steak,,n so on..
...necessity vs luxury...???

JeersPilarSaver 35F

8/16/2006 10:10 pm

dear 2spunkE
wowwww...thats well said!!! yes indeed it tell me something. thank u.

dear maskagain
okay, got it now. physically men can do it with trying to really understand that! thanks a lot!

rm_2spunkE 41M
52 posts
8/17/2006 6:01 am

hey mystic,glad tht i could be of help.hmmmmmm,wanna know anything else from me?

cobra70118 105M

8/17/2006 9:36 pm

Of coarse not

JeersPilarSaver 35F

8/17/2006 10:34 pm

dear cobra70118
yesss, glad to hear ure answer. thanks

4 posts
8/24/2006 4:43 am


Men are dogs. I know this is not what you want to hear, but the vast majority of them are. Take my hockey team. I am single but out of the 15 who are married, 12 of them are fooling around, using hookers, and generally being, well, dogs. he shoots! He scores (and pays 50 bucks).

I know the only conclusion to this little anecdote is that hockey players are awful people, but North Americans have known that for years.

Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder, but I believe that most men think better to hold'er at all than not. Thus in the days of cavemen and hockey teams, groping and grabbing was invented. As time progressed women became emancipated, globalization blossomed, and men grew not an iota. Well, six inches but it never lasts long.

Yes, men are dogs. Dogs lick themselves when nothing else is available, and men watch hockey or grab the nearest girl. Thank God none of my friends work in a mortuary. While this may enable a deadly wrist shot, the upshot of this shooting thought is not so pleasant.

So when you are back-packing around Europe, remember that a ride is not just a ride, and that most dogs run around without licences. I hope this has been helpful. it was the leash I could do.


JeersPilarSaver 35F

8/24/2006 9:27 pm

dear adam the explanation i need. well written and thank u so much for giving me example so i can understand better. i'll be careful. kisses

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