WHY....MEN LIKE ANAL ??????  

JeersPilarSaver 35F
1726 posts
1/3/2006 8:53 pm

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its january 4th already...wow! well, something cross my mind today so...i'll just write. its about anal. yep, anal sex...i cant stop thinking about it. no, no particular reason, im just curious.

why almost all men like anal sex?? not that i complain ...but whats the main reason?? is it bcuz its tighter than pussy, or bcuz its feel naughty and there's forbidden aspects in it?
hmmm..i wondering....

well, i done small research. from 30 girls that i ask about anal sex only 6 that like it hahahaha...im a bit shocked. the rest dont like it at all but they allowed their man to put only finger into their ass cuz somehow, it makes their men more wilder, according to them.
but out from that 30 girls that i ask, i have some close friends and none of them like it. they admit that their man wanna try it but they refuse. hmmm....

ok, lets see from medical and health point of view. mmm, actually ass is dirty right, since its the place for shit exit hehehehe...but there's condom, so thats fine. and about licking it...hmmm.....i dont dare to answer this question so i ask my gyno doctor. she said...there's always a possibility to get some disease but since people keep doing it, its better that both partner should rinse it clean bfore anal.
yep...i agree then.

personally..hmm i dont like it at first. it hurts like hell. yeah, we use lots of lube but when this man slowly pushed his cock into mine, its like something was forced to be opened. ouchhh...we stop. but im ok when he use his fingers.
But the second and third time i start to feel something from my ass. i dont say stop cuz im curious. i mean i try to relax although it still a bit hurt..but just like pussy, i feel something built up and up ...but i dont orgasm. mmm...interesting right...

as for my partner....yes, i can see that he enjoying so much and it turn me on even more. i get different answer from its tighter than pussy, its sexy and naughty, etc etc.

hahahaha...i dunno, i get confused too cuz my mind still ask that question...why men like anal sex?? hey if u can give me some different answer than mine....pls share...i have not many experience yet...so..teach me

ps. sorry if i make the readers confused too hehehe .....


pickthisguy11 36M
79 posts
1/3/2006 10:12 pm

I think the main reason most men like anal is the whole forbidden fruit factor, and the fact that it's a little taboo. Also it's something different. Plus it's a whole different feeling than pussy. I don't know really, everyone you ask probably has a slightly different answer.

As far as my experience with it goes, I enjoy it immensly. My wife doesn't really care for it. She says it doesn't hurt, it just feels a little uncomfortable for her. She says it makes her feel like she has to go to the bathroom.

The way that I have always approached it was to start slow and make sure the woman is relaxed. Start with a finger before a cock, and most importantly, use plenty of lube.

Have fun and enjoy.

SlimGoodGuy 38M

1/3/2006 10:21 pm

Before I say anything, I just have to say I have yet to try anal sex. I've suggested it once, but the partner wasn't ready yet. She's never done it either. She figured my average girth would be more acceptable of a challenge than someone thicker.

Well, some women orgasm that way as well. Google it and you'll see pages upon pages on the subject.

You mentioned lube. It's an excellent idea for anyone contemplating anal sex, and honestly, probably required. You really have to worry about that rectal mucosa getting torn. That's how the bad bugs can do some harm. Like you said, it's a good idea to wash before, but also to wash after, especially men. Sex is such a fluid situation that you could wind up having a cock slide in the vagina after anal. Bad idea. That's why a condom is a good idea for anal.

I'm not sure how much the taboo part plays in the anal sex fascination.

Then you have men having anal sex with other men. Maybe you can blog about that some other time.

Of the 6 out of the 30 who enjoyed anal, what did they have to say? Have you learned anything from them? Talking about anal may be just as taboo as the act itself.

NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
1/3/2006 10:23 pm

I once wrote a post on my blog about anal sex. I have yet to try it, myself. I wrote it based on what I've read from others.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

a_tad_freekee 44M
3 posts
1/3/2006 10:51 pm

Well, you raised a couple points that are right on the money. Men do like anal because it's a taboo of sorts, and generally it's a tighter fit and the sensation is quite a bit different. There's more friction during anal sex than vaginal and so the sensations are heightened for men. From my own experience, I enjoy anal because there is also a psychological/emotional reason. When a woman allows anal, it's a way of saying "Right now, I'm 100% yours."
When it comes to anal intercourse in my experience there is no substitute for patience. No amount of lube or getting tipsy first takes the place of lots of foreplay, lots of licking, fingering and maybe a toy or two in increasing sizes before actual intercourse.
As far as you not reaching climax during anal sex I have two words: bullet vibe. My last acquaintance and I finally did anal and she had the most earth shattering orgasm using one during anal sex. Anyway, don't give up you'll get there

JeersPilarSaver 35F

1/4/2006 3:36 am

dear pickthisguy11
hmmm...lucky u, have a very understanding wife. yep, if i didnt relaxed, i feel like i wanna go to bathroom too
thanks for ure suggestion, will try it

dear slimgoodguy
wow...u know a lot about anal.thank u, i can learn something from ure comment.

dear nickrules999
hmmm, i will read ure blog then thanks

dear a_tad_freekee
well, ure right...mostly men like anal bcuz of the taboo parts i think. but im a bit surprised about 'im 100% yours' if woman allows anal ...hehehehe it freaked me out.
anyway....thank u for the comment. i wont give up

eternal1969 47M
1634 posts
1/4/2006 4:04 am

Well as long as its enjoyable ... anything goes

rm_KemangBule 53M

1/4/2006 4:46 am

Because it's a great view

rm_boredsg25 38M

1/4/2006 7:42 am

interesting topic here

JeersPilarSaver 35F

1/4/2006 6:16 pm

dear kemangbule
oh great view hehehe....nice answer

dear boredsg25
yes it is...

blessmypleasure 40F

1/13/2006 9:07 pm

I've tried it several times. In my partner's point of view, it's chalenging and just wana try as he watched in porn films. It wasn't that bad though. Practically, it hurted so much. But after getting through some references, then practise it, we've found the way to make it less painful and more enjoyable (for me). It's better to get the lady reach orgasm (in any way) before penetrate it for anal. The muscles around miss cheerful will be more relax and you can use the juice from the cum as lubrication. But most of all, the most important thing is that we (ladies) must feel 'surrender', relax and get rid of the 'oh god it will hurt'-thought. Just loose the muscle. The painful feeling will be lessen. Eevn at the end, the lady won't reach any climax (fat chance anyway), the post-effect can be nearly as pussy-penetration orgasm.

JeersPilarSaver 35F

1/14/2006 4:13 pm

dear blessmypleasure
wow..ure experience help me a lot. thanks,,,if i did it will tell u

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