The Beginning  

myhotfluffy 56M/56F
17 posts
7/30/2006 6:01 am

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1/23/2007 12:09 pm

The Beginning

It was worth the wait. We are a 40ish sexy couple, married for just over two years. Sexual desire brought us together some eight plus years ago, 2 divorces later we are having the time of our lives. Like all guys, my husband was interested in seeing his sexy wife with another sexy woman. One night while out on the town we hooked up with a sexy lady who he had worked with. We girls played and had a great time. He of course thought it was great. I did not get from it what he wanted and in the end was pissed when the three of us where in bed and the “other woman” went for him.

The great news is he and I can talk and work through anything. He of course kept on suggesting we try again, and although I continue to enjoy occasional strip club private dances, etc, I stated clearly that I was not interested in actively looking for another girl to add to our fun. I said if it happens it happens, not something I want to look for.

He of course kept on hoping and began looking on a few swinger web sites for the right girl. I knew this and never really got into it. After almost a year of playing around on the web sites, I did check out one of the swinger sites while hubby was working. That evening while drinking and eating at one of our local hotspots, I stated that what we should be looking for is a sexy guy to watch us fuck. This conversation has always made me hot. I said I liked the whole idea of someone watching. My husband is not the jealous type and the more we discussed this I found myself to be very hot about the idea. Frankly, it sounded good to me. I did not think I was interested in another guy fucking me, but playing with us sounded hot. My husband said, most guys would be primarily interested in me, and that frankly he was sure most guys would rather just fuck me, his hot wife with or without him around. I am not sure at this point I really understood, but we had clearly changed direction.

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
7/30/2006 7:19 am

It is great that you can talk. Always be honest and you two will eventually be on the same page and enjoy your encounters. The beginning is always tough. Sail and I are still learning what we like and dislike with other couples.

Good luck,

Purry {=}


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