Adult Swinger Site ... Bella...Move on without the judgemental  

mygmyg 59M
483 posts
4/23/2005 10:58 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Adult Swinger Site ... Bella...Move on without the judgemental


concern for what others may be doing/seeking. This site in my mind is controlled by the MOUSE and KEYBOARD on each of our computers.
Accessing, contacting, and deciding what you have "clicked" is not for you. Very much like choices we make about our wants and desires, what to view, listen to, shun, accept and so on.
This site also allows blocking when a member feels compelled to use it.
The blogs are a great cathartic, fantasy exchange, humorous, reflective, informative feature. Invariably the popularity of some blogs is a problem for some. How childlike we appear in this respect. Drawn to a blog and deciding it is misleading and you need to reveal/confront and then enjoy the result.
Adult is in the title, conveying discretion, Swinging Lifestyle a nonjudgemental acceptance of others.

Outing anothers indiscretion/misuse of the site should be done through the site administrators, or one on one in private with the other member, until one is physically threatened, i.e. stalker or abuse.

Expressing in one's own blog that YOU should not be viewed/judged/commented to, by those who find your seeking a relationship outside of your marriage a choice you make. I DISCREETLY RESPECT your CHOICE. 100% WITH NO RESERVATION. No confrontation, no hidden agenda of concern for its effect on other members. You are entitled to your own choices, GEA05!! In reading your blog, I believe you to be a veritable delight.

Pulling the shroud back and getting quite specific....Curiousity of the reason for the popularity that Bella's blog had, and deciding the pics were the only allure/impetus is an opinion. for me,INITIALLY yes, but content, interaction and intimate revelations along with playful fantsy/fun also compelled my interest.

All of the Bloggers here are a wonderful ENTREE, and can be accessed, chosen, passed by, tasted, feasted upon, contemplated, queried, praised, and sometimes held up to individual criticism.
One of the many wonderful delicacies I found, has withdrawn from our wonderful table of veritable delights.

Moving on is inevitable, I will always relish fondly the content of her offerings.

mnfun952 102M

4/23/2005 1:00 pm

Nicely written Myg... I like the definition: Swinging Lifestyle; a non-judgemental acceptance of others. It's beautiful really... Have a great day,

MnFun


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
4/23/2005 7:28 pm

Nothing surprises me on the net.


mygmyg 59M

4/23/2005 9:58 pm

Mz Hunyhole I am no deeper than a puddle on the road, but thank you, I am as shallow as the next man/woman, but I am trying to grow, learn, understand and accept myself, and everyone I come in contact with..... and perhaps not quite as deep as a puddle, but just as murky!!


rm_Elysia2005 43F
412 posts
4/26/2005 10:12 pm

mygmyg, I have trouble accepting your little self-assessment as a shallow man... Very few as intelligent as you are, could ever truly be called shallow.


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