mygmyg 59M
483 posts
5/14/2005 11:05 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Pondering my experiences on the site , with paid membership and standard free rider membership and pre-blog days I was reminded of a most remarkable experience, in of all places, the chat rooms.

The chat rooms are something to behold for any new member, from the speed to the ball brandishing male lines of "WHO WANTS TO F&#@ ME, to the sewing circle of female friends who control the uncontrollable.

I had been popping in and out , occaisionally commenting and trying to squeeze into the miniscule space this feature provides for a man on the perv.

I said hi to a lady who entered the room. No response for a few minutes and then she re-entered and asked to IM. Which caused a volley of responses, but she wanted only my IM!! I responded and was contacted immediately through the IM.

What an out of the ordinary experience it was, a lady who looked at profiles, decided to take a chance and BAM, did it.

I know the ladies get JUMPED AT,in this manner, but does it happen often to any of the males out there?

While this was a wonderfull opportunity, We had no spark upon meeting, or perhaps just not sparking together, but it was what I hoped for, as far as interest from the Ladies.

Until discovering the blogs I thought this was unique and quite a singular event on the site. Now I realize that the true hindrance to finding exciting, interested Ladies is the distances separating us.

rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
5/14/2005 2:11 pm

I have never been one to chat much on this site although I have on occasion. I suppose all types of interaction allowed on this site should be taken advantage of rather than just one...

rm_WickedFemale 62F
401 posts
5/14/2005 4:11 pm

Been in the chat a couple of times and notice how quickly someone can jump to talking with one to another the next second. Note here that I did not say anyone sex cause they all were doing this.

hourglasses 47F

5/15/2005 1:17 pm

I went into a chatroom once here and found it overwhelming. This is more my pace - write a few lines, get a comment, comment back. And I probably wouldn't be talking to so many people from far away if it weren't for reading their blogs.

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