Lost the love of my life last night  

myepisode 54M
22 posts
4/20/2006 10:56 am

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4/20/2006 3:48 pm

Lost the love of my life last night


Yes. Yes. Yes. Heard all the self-help psychobabble before. "Think of a breakup this way: you're one step closer to the one you're meant to be with." Breaking up is the beginning of new transition in your life. It's easy to look at an experience in a negative way, but we'd like to challenge you to view your separation as a new beginning -- a real chance for finding your Mr. or Ms. Right.

Total Bullshit!

If you don't believe me, of course. Fuck you! But check the date I created this profile and what I look for in a woman. That part cannot be made up ... at least the date.

Did I mention that I was attached? Unless you are a complete goddess who is capable of making a diva irrelevant, we will have problems no doubt!

Yes, she is that amazing - even a year later!

But love kicks your ass when you least expect it ... and it takes patience and knows no rules. It doesn't give a shit about your LA schedule, your finances or the current state of your heart. If anything, Murphy's Law states that love will strike you when you're busy, broke and blue.

Now, my personal advice to you SOCAL daters and potential fuck buddies, if you want to try something different for a change (and I learned this one very early in life) ... is when you find someone who you like, DON'T jump in bed with them so quickly. Think about it...which sounds better to you:

"I'm having sex with this person because they are hot and they drink as hard as me and they have a tattoo too and they like The White Stripes."

"I'm having sex with this person because in addition to all those things, we've had a great time hanging out for the past month, going to the movies, laughing, necking at my friends party, sharing old college photo albums, and getting comfortable enough with one another to clean spinch between our teeth...and frankly, I'm going to explode if I don't rip their clothes off right now."

Please be human and select number two!


How did I know she was IT for me? Here's a partial list because the heavy stuff stays inside, for just her and I, and I think I want to be selfish about those things.

#1 There was such a possible future - I could touch it.

#2 We had such similar core beliefs.

#3 Our relationship was so much more than sexual - and the best sex I have ever known - totally selfless and supreme.

#4 We were so much in love.

#5 We started as such great friends.

AngelEyez4u2004 57F
1473 posts
4/20/2006 11:07 am

myepisode, am sorry u lost yur love, but I know first hand how that goes, I lost my soulmate not long ago, someone i had waited for all my life basically.....sucks the big one


imLadyBambi 58M/50F

4/20/2006 11:10 am

It's good that you have found someone that you can have that much fun with.

Enjoy!

Lady Bambi


countrypassion2 54F
26 posts
4/20/2006 11:17 am

So sorry babe, I can r=relate to all of it, even the words of advice; I think the same. I met a soul love on this site; likewise lost him a month ago. It does suck big time! Our relationship was a timing thing, what happened to yours? Just curious!!

Country


myepisode 54M

4/20/2006 11:22 am

    Quoting imLadyBambi:
    It's good that you have found someone that you can have that much fun with.

    Enjoy!

    Lady Bambi
I will assume that you are just mistaken.

Take care and be well.


myepisode 54M

4/20/2006 11:33 am

    Quoting countrypassion2:
    So sorry babe, I can r=relate to all of it, even the words of advice; I think the same. I met a soul love on this site; likewise lost him a month ago. It does suck big time! Our relationship was a timing thing, what happened to yours? Just curious!!

    Country
Well, I like to think that I found her here, but when we met it was incredible. We had not a single intention of falling in love. But we did.

Some of it was timing that hurt us. The rest was the past that seemed to take over when the world settled in.

I so wish I could fix this - but it's so raw right now. Biggest regrets of my life are there.


AngelEyez4u2004 57F
1473 posts
5/3/2006 8:19 am

    Quoting myepisode:
    Well, I like to think that I found her here, but when we met it was incredible. We had not a single intention of falling in love. But we did.

    Some of it was timing that hurt us. The rest was the past that seemed to take over when the world settled in.

    I so wish I could fix this - but it's so raw right now. Biggest regrets of my life are there.
Wow amazing how situations seem to be so similar. Found mine here, wasn't looking for anything in particular. Started as friends, grew to more, never met in person cus of the distance, but the intention was we'd spend a great deal of my summer together (distance made it impossible for an earlier meet) and like u, the past did us in, his past that is.......Who knows, maybe someday i'll be lucky enough to hear from him again, and get a real explanation as to why he bailed out. Living in limbo isn't any fun, but as they say, time is suppose to heal all, and well my personal opinion on that is, LIKE HELL IT DOES.........I truly hope you can fix yours, would be nice to know some relationships eventually work out.


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