Soul Mates?  

muscles4u2have 54M
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3/15/2006 9:56 am

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Soul Mates?

I think about finding that perfect partner - a soul mate. We blog and find someone whom has similar interests, we are attracted by their looks, ect. Are they our soul mates? Most of the people in blogville, that we blog with, are not in our town or even close. But I always wonder if one of these women are actually my soul mate, but will never know because of distance that separates us.

What is a soul mate?

I think it is a partner that you would never lose love for. Even after 3 to 5 years of being together. Communication with each other, that is understood mutually. Always telling the other the truth and never having to worry about hurting their feelings, because they would understand. Some one who is the same as me.

What do you think a soul mate is?

Do you think there is such a thing as a soul mate?

Have you ever found a soul mate?

Well I will dream on in search. I have found many partners whom I am infatuated with, but after 3 years it dies off. I want a love that lasts forever. Is there such a thing?


TabithaElectra79 37F

3/15/2006 10:23 am

I do believe in soul mates, it doesn't have to just be in the form of an intimate relationship it can be found within friendship also...


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/15/2006 10:41 am

Hottest of the Hotties Tabs,

I think maybe more so for women. For me I am not sure about frendship! What a great point! You really have me thinking--- ouch that hurts to do that, I'm not used to thinking!!


SpunkNLace 47F

3/15/2006 12:35 pm

Oh no you have me thinking deeply now ,,
A soul mate is someone you have an deep affinity with .It is so natural so right.There is a friendship like no other and the attraction held between you is so powerful it can take your breath away. .I believe if truly a soulmate you do anything together to make sure that the feelings, friendship, attraction does not end after any length of time
for they are the other half to the whole.

OK I done rambling now I think

XXOO
T


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/15/2006 1:39 pm

Lovely Lace,

WOW, You hit it right on the head with your thoughts. That is the way I think of a soulmate too!! Please ramble on!! I will think of things that I would do if you were my soulmate!! Okay you don't have to be a soulmate, I will still be thinking my pervy thoughts (as you say I'm pervy) about you!!


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/15/2006 1:43 pm

Luscious Lady,

I haven't either! Every time I think I do I seem to get bored with them. So it is not really the right person. You want to be my blog soulmate? I do have a tattooed soulmate too! At least this way we can say we have a soulmate!! Okay I am out of sorts with this full moon thing!!


TabithaElectra79 37F

3/15/2006 3:00 pm

Is it a full moon now?


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/15/2006 3:34 pm

Hottest of the Hotties Tabs,

Last night was the full moon!! Couldn't you hear me howling at it?! Oh ya I was actually howling for you to come here!!


southrnpeach333 50F

3/15/2006 6:10 pm

I agree with Tabitha, I believe in soul mates, but I believe we can more than one, friends, lovers, different people filling your soul.


frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
3/15/2006 11:05 pm

I am still searching for mine... I have a man who has been my best friend for the past 25 yrs., so you could say he is 1 form of soul mate.. just not that 'one'. So I am still waiting for the arrival of the 1 to 'complete' me. T

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tillerbabe 55F

3/16/2006 1:29 am

What do you think a soul mate is? Everything you said, plus someone that will make us learn...push our buttons, make us grow...

Have you ever found a soul mate? I've only dated "soul mates"


kelly402005 52F

3/16/2006 5:47 am

I think you answered your own question baby.......

A "soul mate" is ....... "a love that last forever"

~~Never found a "soul mate" myself......

~~Hope there is one, "out there" for me.....
We'll see, huh!


sassybelle21 32F
13313 posts
3/16/2006 6:43 am

As stupid as this may sound to most, my German lover is my ultimate soulmate. Why? Because he's just perfect. He's everything that I dream of and want. Though we might not end up getting serious and live a life together, I am glad to have had the chance to meet MY soulmate.


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/16/2006 8:32 am

Peaches,

But filling your soul and soulmates, I think are 2 different things! I feel when you make love to a person you care about, you are feeling their soul! I understand what you are saying though!!


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/16/2006 8:34 am

frbnkslady,

I know what you mean!! Have that type of friend too! Not that long! But it just isn't the one!!!


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/16/2006 8:39 am

Titalating Tiller,

I agree with you!! Is the moon getting to you too!! Your acting a little horny!!


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/16/2006 8:41 am

Kelly,

I do beleive there is one for every one! Just hope we realize it when we find them. They could be near you every day but you never get to meet them!! Oh well the search goes on!!


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/16/2006 8:45 am

Sexy Sassy,

Don't give up on your German lover for a long time relationship! Let happen what happens. You never know what might come out of it. I am happy for you though, to have such a great inter feeling for him!!


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/16/2006 8:46 am

Sexyfitwoman,

I know what you mean!! I want both at once. That lasts for ever!!


HBowt2 58F

3/16/2006 3:52 pm

someone you can have everything with...now wouldn't that be wonderful...


LustGoddess2469 49F  
2453 posts
3/16/2006 5:04 pm

infatuate: transitive verb 1: to cause to be foolish : deprive of sound judgment; 2: to inspire with a foolish or extravagant love or admiration

A soul mate is someone who completes you.
A soul mate knows your thoughts before you do.
A soul mate is someone you have "known your entire life", even though you just met an hour ago.
A soul mate is someone you can't wait to hold at night, just to feel them next to you, watch them as they sleep, listen to their every breath, and know what they are dreaming.
You can, and do, have more than one soul mate.

Yes, I have met a soul mate, and I married him on October 7, 1995. We are still friends and have a great "ex" relationship. Maybe someday I will meet another soul mate. Who knows?

Lusty


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/17/2006 9:18 am

HBowt,

Yes it would be awesome. Maybe some day!!!


muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/17/2006 9:23 am

Lusty,

WOW, great answer! I agree totally! You married a soulmate and divorced him? That doesn't seem right!! It must have been his fault huh!! I am sure you will meet another one! Just from reading you posts and comments you are very similar to me!!


LustGoddess2469 49F  
2453 posts
3/17/2006 3:20 pm

    Quoting muscles4u2have:
    Lusty,

    WOW, great answer! I agree totally! You married a soulmate and divorced him? That doesn't seem right!! It must have been his fault huh!! I am sure you will meet another one! Just from reading you posts and comments you are very similar to me!!
It wasn't directly his fault. We were perfect together. In the 13 years we were together, we NEVER had an argument. We had a few slightly heated discussions, but never to the point that voices were raised, and we never went to bed angry.

He developed an addiction to cocaine. For the last two years we were together, I did everything within my power to help him beat it; but, in the end, he chose the drugs over the boys and me. So, it was more of a self-preservation and protection of the kids situation than a loss of love situation. I still love him, and probably always will, but I'm not IN love with him anymore.

I don't know if I will meet another one, but it would be wonderful to share that type of love again. Everyone should be lucky enough to experience the love of a soul mate at least once in their life.

Lusty


__Huntress__ 55M/57F

3/19/2006 6:22 am

I've had one person in my life that I consider a soulmate because we were so much alike ... but I'm still not sure that a soulmate is someone you're meant to spend the rest of your life with ... no matter now hard he and I tried ... we couldn't make it work ... soulmate or not ... !

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muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
3/20/2006 8:15 am

Lusty,

You are lucky! To meet someone like that. Unbeleivable to never fight with someone! Sorry to hear that was the reason!!

I beleive in destiny though and it has given me some great freinds in my life!! I think you will find another soul mate too!!


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