Wondering  

mtnjones 44M
1 posts
8/31/2005 10:34 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Wondering


So I have to admit that I have become fully addicted to sites like AdultFriendFinder, AM and really getting into the whole online thing... but I wonder why this has become such a big part of so many people's lifes.... obviously anonymous sex turns a lot of us on, but I consider myself a very attractive man (photo not posted due to living in a small community -- not everyone is as open as most people on this site). But as the old saying goes you show me yours... and you won't be disappointed with mine.

And so I ponder.... and invite people to challenge, and question me.... give me your best shot b.c not only do I enjoy a nice nasty chat from time to time, but also to have people challenmge my brain.

KhaosKitty 42F
123 posts
9/1/2005 1:58 am

I can't speak for others, but I am here not for the sex but for the community. It's not everywhere that you can come and share the things shared here. If I get a little extra fun from time to time... Well, I'm not necessarily going to say no, if you know what I mean.

Psychologically speaking, I think that sites like this - and all of the other blogging sites out and about on the web these days - are popular because humans are basically herd/pack animals. We are not meant to be alone, but ofttimes beliefs, thoughts or behaviours that are considered out of the norm isolate us from those that we live close to. There is always someone, however, online that is similar or accepting enough that we can bond with. And this is a heck of a lot healthier than some solutions.

When you get right down to it, we all need a community that we feel safe in - be it real or virtual.

*gets off soap box and dusts it for the next occupant*


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