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"How to capture a Man
"How to capture a Man
"How To Capture a Man's Heart, Make Him Crave You Night and Day and Want You To Be His Queen... Forever!"
The secrets to understanding men that will give you the love and cherishing you crave.
Have you ever wondered:
.What do women who have adoring husbands know that I don't?
.Why can't I get a man to fall in love with me?
.Why doesn't he call back?
.What am I doing wrong?
.Why can't I keep a man?
.Am I going to live the rest of my life alone?
.What can I do to save my relationship?
.Is there hope for someone like me?
.Am I ever going to have the relationship of my dreams?
...Did you answer yes to any of the above? It wasn't that long ago that I was answering yes to each and every one of those questions and it felt awful. If you answered yes to even one of them, then you're going to be thrilled to discover the simple truths that have been waiting for you all of your life.
Are you aware that you already hold the key to having the kind of relationship you desire? Did you know you were born with it? Did you know that men crave what you posess, they're hungry for it, even starving for it? They need it, give up their lives for it and all you need to do is awaken to it. Like Snow White, what you are about to learn is like the kiss that will open your eyes to the amazing power that is now within your grasp, a power that has been there all along.You already know that men are great at getting what they want. But this thing that you have they can only get from you. And they want it more than you can imagine. Without it, they are incomplete, and they know it. You are a woman, therefore you have exactly what it takes to completely captivate a man, win his heart, and cause him to never, ever want to lose you. You just don't know it yet. This powerful force is called Feminine Grace. It's a precious gift and you get to enjoy how pleasurable and satisfying it is for you and for any man with whom you come in contact.Learning to use this amazing power over men is gloriously simple. As you develop and learn to use your personalized version of Feminine Grace you will begin to feel the joy of self-confidence that can only come from a woman who has discovered her innate womanly powers. You will be like the flower that the bees hover around and can't get enough of.
This is "How to do a relationship right" brought to it's simplest form. Whether you are dating and searching for Mr. Right, wanting the man you love to propose and commit to a lifetime with you, wanting more passion and romance, or married and scared about where things are heading, you will be shocked and mystified that you have been so close to knowing exactly what to do and up until now, have somehow missed something so rediculously simple.
When a man meets a woman with Feminine Grace he will do whatever it takes to win her heart. That's because he so rarely meets thist kind of woman, if ever, and she's exactly what he has been searching for. That woman can easily and effortless be you. He will be mesmerized by you. He won't be able to help himself. That's because he has been aching to be with a woman who possesses this power over him and because you will very likely be the first women with the qualities for which his heart has been aching. When you offer your heart filled with Feminine Grace he will become enthralled, thinking about you night and day.
He won't make you wonder if he is interested, he'll let you know. He won't make you wait around, anxious about when he will call again. He'll call right away because he knows that other men will swoop in if he doesn't move quickly.
I'm Just Like You... Only With a Twist
My name is Kaye Oh. I've had my ups and downs with men. Divorced after 23 years from what I thought was a good marriage. Dated a variety of good men but was getting nowhere. I was beginning to wonder what was wrong with me. Why couldn't I attract a great guy? Why didn't even one man fall madly in love with me? I'm decent looking, I'm fun, I'm intelligent. I'm easy going, rarely getting upset and even then, never blow up. I was beginning to settle into the idea that I was going to grow old alone when I did something that makes me just a bit different than you.
The Twist That Makes Me a Little Different Than You
When my closest girlfriend met a man who really adored her, I picked myself up and said, "To heck with this giving up thing. I want what she has. I'm going to go out there and figure out why it's not happening for me." I began to talk to men about what I was looking for and what I needed to do differently to have an adoring man who made my heart sing and my toes curl.
Boy, did I get an ear full. They told me things I never knew. How could I have been a woman for all these years and missed what they were telling me. How could I have been happily married for 23 years and not know this stuff. I was blown away. And I was hooked. I immersed myself in the study of men. I read every book I could get my hands on, I subscribed to several men's magazines, and I interviewed literally hundreds of men for two solid years.
We all know men are pretty simple and straight forward. What they were teaching me about what I needed to do to have a fabulous relationship was also simple and straight forward.
I'm Now Known As the "Female" Expert On Men! HA!
I didn't set out to become an expert on men. I just wanted an adoring man who would be thrilled to be with me. I'd read lots of books on how to create a great relationship, but none of them told me what was necessary to get what I wanted. And certainly, none of them taught me how helpless men are in the presence of a woman with Feminine Grace.
As I developed my sense of what Feminine Grace was and began to use it on men, I was amazed. I couldn't believe the difference in how men responded to me. I knew I was on to something and decided I owed it to women just like you to get the word out.
That Special "Something" That Some Women Have
As I was learning about men I also began to talking to couples who appeared to have the kind of relationships that I wanted. What I discovered is that each relationship was different in how they interacted, dealt with problems, and loved each other. There was no consistancy. But there was consistancy somewhere else. I didn't notice it at first but a trend began to show itself. The similarity between all of the couples that emerged was that all of the men were enthralled with their wives.
These women were every age, shape, size, and physical condition. So it had nothing to do with how they looked. It had to do with how they treated their husbands (none were docile or doormats, by the way), how noticably comfortable they were in their own skin, and how content they were with themselves. This really got my attention.
More than any other group of women I knew, these women simply enjoyed being women. They obviously knew something I didn't and I wasn't going to let go until I figured out what it was.
You, Too, Can Become a Woman Who Captivates Men
No longer will you...
...feel like you have no control over what happens in your relationship;
...wonder if you're ever going to find a good man;
...worry that you are doing something wrong;
...settle for a man who is less than you deserve,
...wonder what those other women who have amazing relationships know, that you don't.
Now, you will be the woman who makes other women wonder what secrets you possess.
Why Your Relationship(s) Haven't Been Working For You
You learned how to be in a relationship by hit-or-miss. Some things you got right, other's maybe aren't working so well.
You have a pretty good idea how you would like it to be, but don't know how to get from here to there.
You get advice from Cosmopolitin Magazine, your mothers, your sisters, and your girlfriends who get their know-how from their mothers, sisters, girlfriends and those pesky magazines.
You have tried lots of things and none have quite given you what you want.
Sure, your mother, your sisters and girlfriends, even the books and magazines have some of the pieces to this confusing puzzle called men, but the the most important pieces have been missing. Actually, most of the advice you've been getting from those sources have not only been wrong, but have actually been endangering the possibility of you having the relationship you want.
Men Need Only 3 Things To Fall Madly, Deeply, Forever In Love
What a man needs to fall madly, deeply, forever in love with you:
1.)He needs to feel you really understand him (you're soon going to become an expert on men, just like me);
2.)He needs to be with a woman who oozes Feminine Grace
3.)He needs to be with a woman who makes him feel like a man (#1 and #2 make #3 automatic and that's why he's going to fall head-over-heals in love with you).
When you give him what he needs you will become completely irresistible and the most magical thing about all this is that you will get exactly what you need from him.
If you've ever wanted magic in your life, this is it!
Men Are Driven To Make Women Happy
They can't help it, it's in their DNA. The more a man cares for you, the more driven he becomes. The more you exude Feminine Grace the more inspired he will be. He wants to take care of you, protect you, be your hero.
You know how little boys will do stupid things, like jumping off of a table, to impress a girl? He needs to impress you. When you show him you are impressed, he wants to do even more for you. If you're impressed enough, you make him feel like Superman (meaning you make him feel like a man), and that's when he falls in love with you.
Fortunately, when they're older, they no longer jump off of tables, they actually try to find out what we want.
Just Be Yourself
The best way to have your dream-come-true relationship is to be your most joyous, delicious, exquisite self. But you should do it for yourself, not for a man, or it won't work. You must be your most true and authentic self, bubbling over with Feminine Grace and the sheer delight that you are a woman. To do that you have to do it for the joy of discovering who you really are and what it feels like to be your very best self. As you awaken your personal expression of Feminine Grace you will become the irristible woman you know you can be.
You really can capture his heart, cause him to start thinking about you night and day and make you his queen... forever.
When your Feminine Grace starts capturing his attention and the men around you begin to notice that you're different than almost every other woman they've ever met, they won't be able to resist you, they'll do your bidding, and will feel powerless around you. Best of all, they're going to love every minute of it. Everybody wins!
Whether you want to “get out of a relationship rut,” attract the relationship you want into your life, or find fulfillment in your current relationship, I hope that for your sake, you'll take the path to relationship success that that thousands of women around the world have taken.
8/14/2006 12:15 pm
just be your self that is the hvy can assist u with sweetheart. out give ne a buzz n the future (age in forties_????____|
9/13/2006 11:40 am
Very good article. I am sure a lot of women will benifit from your thoughts. Have you found the right guy yet? As a man, and one that is on his 3rd marriage, I have discovered that a lot of times, women make judgements on first impressions. Personnally I do not do good impressions. I am who I am, usually nervous, quiet, reserved, but a good listner. Most women, even by emails, will shun me because I don't come across as a dominate male. I feel it takes time to know someone, to learn what they need, and how to fullfill it. So what I am saying is don't judge too soon. Get to know the deeper person before you give up.|