Okay, I thought men were always horny  

ms_behavin_conn 50F
15 posts
12/26/2005 2:22 pm

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Okay, I thought men were always horny


I know for me, I can get horny very fast and for a long time. I'm multi organsim, so to find a guy that loves sex as much and as long can be difficult. Sure they all say they can keep up with me, but I don't think so. Here's on example of actions speak louder then words, and in this case he couldn't do either:
Take for example this guy I met, his name is Bruce( not his real name). He wrote me on here after answering my ad. He was very sweet and nice, but also very shy. Okay, I thought with time he'll open up to me, since he's here looking for a good time. I never encountered a man who had a problem speaking frankly about wanting to fuck before! This guy was so clinical in his descriptions, I thought I was at the GYN office. After a few weeks,I got him to open up in letters about what he wanted to do and vise versa. Talking on the phone now, that was another thing.It was like pulling teeth to get him to talk errotic. We seemed to have a lot in common, but this hangup he had was driving me crazy. We decided to finally meet in public. Well, of course it was too public to really get anything started, but I was prepared. I had on a silk blose with the buttons undone enough for him to get a good hard on. We sat and talked- boring, and when I was getting ready to call it a waste of time, I happen to mention how I looked. Well, that seemed to perk him up, as he said he noticed but couldn't react with the traffic in and out(no pun intended)of the parking lot. We went to the back of the car and opened the trunk, but there was someone sitting nearby. So, we moved to another parking lot, little less crowed. I swear I got more action @ 13 with a boy I knew then this grown 49 year old man! He touched my tits like they would fall apart- even after I told him that. Okay, I said, I'll get him to relax, and I reached over rubbed the head of his cock through his pants. I then reached over and pulled his cock out and circled his balls and rubbed his shaft, almost till he came..... still nothing from him. We ended there and he kissed me good-bye like I was his sister or something..... very nerve racking. He writes me later and tells me nobody has every made him feel that way before, and next time( like I would want to do that again)we would have to go oral or fuck somewhere...... Well, there wasn't a next time.......I'm not a fuckin thearpist here.....I don't get some guys, they come across like they are all that, and yet when push comes to shove they are little boys. I want a man, and a man that loves sex like I do.Well, I got to go for now, will write more soon, just had to vent my frustrations............

pleaseher1961 55M/50F

12/26/2005 5:26 pm

Hi. Your post caught my eye and let me tell you from my own experience...some guys just dont fit the stereo typical horndog syndrome.

I was married to the dullest, quietest, most non sexual man in the whole world for 7 years. Thank God I finally realized there wasn't anything wrong with me...it was all him! So, don't try and understand men like that. I figure they are gay men who don't have the balls to admit it.

The one thing I did learn was I didn't have to settle.


SlimGoodGuy 38M

12/26/2005 5:28 pm

I'm left wondering why this seems to happen so often around here. What kinds of guys are you women accepting? I'm sure there are some around this site that fit the bill. Hell, I am sitting here like the rest of the men with my thumb up my ass waiting for a bite while chumps without a backbone offline are getting action.

Well, here's another twist to the AdultFriendFinder experience that will take some time to understand.

Best of luck finding what you're looking for.


rm_bri28ma 39M
357 posts
12/30/2005 5:46 am

What's up with this guy? This is a sex site, isn't it? If he didn't feel attracted or "in the mood", he should ahve the balls to say it...and if he wasn't ready to go all out why be here in the first place? Maybe some poeple think they're more adventurous than they actually are, and think they SHOULD be here rather than really want to be here. Either way, it's incredibly frustrating!


fireman12575 42M
17 posts
1/4/2006 1:25 pm

i was in that parking lot and saw bruce and you ...
i tried to scream out for him to touch yer titties or grab yer ass but the traffic was to loud...
so i decided to run over and give him a cheering squad so he got some spirit...but as i ran through the parking lot i got sideswiped by a car...
by the time i came to u were both driving off...
thats the last time i try to be a good sexamaritain...


funforyou33453 34M

1/8/2006 4:59 pm

I think maybe you should try a younger man like me, if we were to meet I would give you what you want.


rm_fred336633 61M
8 posts
1/20/2006 7:21 pm

Hey the guy had head problems. You've got to keep trying. Most of us are ready to bonk whenever there's an opening. I prefer a motel room to a busy parking lot, but usually that's because of the lady, not me. At least finding a private place is a good idea. My present squeeze likes to park in the wood which isn't good this time of year.
Anyway you're special mostly it's us who are too eager. Call me anytime.


likembig22004 61M

1/23/2006 12:24 pm

WOW what a bad experience..That would never happen with me I've seen your pictures!!! i'd love to devour you !!!! and spoil you !!!


Eroticmale367 49M

2/18/2006 9:08 am

I think that you were dealing with a sexually immature man who is considered a (well mannered person (wimp)). You need a man who is assertive and knows how to fuck and be erotic. contact me love.


rm_fred336633 61M
8 posts
5/15/2006 10:44 am

There seems to be a problem with somewhere near half the men and half the women over 40. They have a diminished interest in sex. Just on pure statistics that leaves half the men and half the women hornier n hell! AdultFriendFinder is a great place for us horny ones to declare ourselves.


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