The Sweet Sound of.............Rejection?  

mrhere4goodtime 42M
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12/29/2005 9:34 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The Sweet Sound of.............Rejection?

Here's a crazy concept...
When you start to get to know someone, via email, chat, phone, whatever.......if things are not in fact 'clicking' - show them the courtesy of just simply saying it.

I've been on both sides of the fence on this one folks - you meet someone, and, at some point, you realize 'Hey - they aren't quite what I am looking for'

I say, show them that courtesy - let them know it just isn't gonna go further. A little rejection goes a long way, and, contrary to popular belief, it is not a bad thing to say to someone 'You just aren't for me.' It doesn't mean you have to stop talking/chatting/emailing that person, but, at least, both of you know where it stands, and, where it is, or is not, possibly heading towards.

On the flip side, nothing more frustrating then, starting to get to know someone, and, suddenly, they stop responding. Was it something you said? Was it that they didn't like your pics? Are they just really busy?

So, I say, act like a grown up, let the other person know what's going on......we're all grown ups, a little rejection given or received won't actually kill anyone.....I promise you.

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